Where do you live now? I am a Filipino and living in the Philippines.
What makes you smile? My two kids who makes a lot of time to say thank you, and genuine smiles and kisses when I see them everyday makes me smile.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far? The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far is that I still have a big purpose here on earth. That having a positive outlook in life I can make something good to every person that I meet on a daily basis. Weather how simple it may be to others, but have a big impact on myself, because, as you count your blessings, many more blessing will come!
What is your deepest fear? My deepest fear is not accomplishing my purpose in life and that God already take my life away.
What is your greatest dream for your life? My greatest dream of my life is to have a business that I can support the needs of my kids and my family, and later on will sustain and help more people.
Who are you? I am a Single Mom, with 2 loving kids, with 2 supporting brothers who work hand in hand with me in raising my kids together with my beautiful and loving mom and with good relatives and friends and having a good boss at my present job.And I thank God and hope he will give me more blessings to help more people.
Catherine M – I hope everyone reads your message about the courage to re-create. This is what I’ve written about in my books, being willing to say it’s never too late and any breakdown or challenge we can recover from if we are willing to evolve from it. Your story shared reminds me of caterpillars becoming butterflies, and some of us have to do that a few times in this life. Thank you for sharing. B x
Diana – When I read your story and then read your dream, it felt to me like you already live your dream and I’m energised reading what you wrote. Having published 2 books I know what a mammoth effort it is to go through that process, the love poured into a book and the logistics to make it happen, so props to you for your amazing work! And another synchronicity, I adore horses and would love nothing more than to ride every day! Thank you for sharing… it has lifted me up.
Yahya – great idea you offered with “How are you living?” as an alternative question! Thanks for sharing.
Amandah – Awesome rocking attitude. Talk about energy… I can tell no matter what you do you’re gonna grab life by the horns. Go you!
Jim – Thank you for sharing. Your words are very wise, each moment being subject to change, nothing is ever set in concrete. Learn that lesson the hard way myself, not to attach to outcomes and to stay present and allowing. 🙂
Susan – I’m nodding reading your story. Particularly the age old saying money can’t buy happiness.
Judy – Thanks for telling us all about the advice your mother gave you. No one thrives alone in this world, and I’m nodding along to what your mother said, we all need each other, our connections are our access point to thriving. And… I agree: you are awesome!
Eileen – Thank you for reminding me to be grateful for my health. It is something I can sometimes take for granted.
Sammie – Owning our strengths and our weaknesses… powerful and not something everyone does. The more people like you who role model being open and embracing our humanness, the better this world will be. Thanks for being you.
Nana – I hope others read your message about the inner child emerging, it generates such a response within me. Let’s all embrace our inner child!
Alissa – The way you describe your work says a lot to me “Help people to represent themselves”. I’m not kidding, I literally feel emotional reading that. Those people are blessed to have you in their lives.
Millicent – Thanks for sharing. You remind us to leave our failures in the past and that carrying them with us into the present just steals the possibilities and love from the present.
Donna – The “be the change” quote is one of my favourites too. I love your story and you resonate on so many levels for me. Funniest synchronicity about you want to go out on a limb to taste the sweet fruit – one of my books is about my journey to do just that and following my deepest calling, and it’s called “Going Out on a Limb”! Funny! 🙂
Anoop – My husband would love your story, I will share it with him. We are always remembering to be the awareness, the watching presence behind the ego, and I laughed out loud while nodding in agreement when I read your message about the ego who says “I have no ego” in order to satisfy the go!! Hilarious and so true.
James – Thank you for sharing about pushing to find the extremes. You remind me to continue to nudge the edges of my comfort zone.
Aniyah – Mmm. I’m intrigued, I want to know how you got from France to Tennessee! You can email me on my website directly if you want to. B 🙂
I am Mandy. I was born in a suburb of Cleveland Ohio in a cookie-cutter development filled with kids my age to play with. I had a great memory-filled childhood there.
I now live in Upstate New York, having moved here to get married to the man I am now divorced from. I love the small-town atmosphere here. It is a great place to raise children. Although I miss Cleveland, I have so many new friends here that mean the world to me. Now my heart calls two places home!
Humor makes me smile. I love laughing along with friends and loved ones. That ability makes life worth living. Imagine how boring lunch break would be if we all sat there stoicly talking shop. I love happiness in others. I love how, even in hard times, those you love can make you smile. I love that I can make others smile as well.
The most important lesson I have learned is that I really can do anything. I went through some trying times and was so very scared. When I got divorced, I worried myself sick about how I was going to cope with finances and child-rearing and home ownership all by myself. But I persevered. I sought out information, I asked for help, I dug in and plowed ahead. I am not going to pretend it was easy, but now that I look back, I am pretty sure I can overcome anything that comes my way.
My biggest fear is losing someone I love, especially my children.
My greatest dream is to live the best life I can. I want to enjoy each moment, make the best decisions, and not let life pass me by. If I reach the end of my life knowing that I did it justice, I will be happy.
I am a great mother, a good friend, an honest and loyal person. I am grateful for all the wonderful people I have in my life. I am excited to see what the future brings.
I loved reading everyones stories here. I have read them all!!!
Anna V – Your message about no point in stressing reminds me of my dad always saying to me “Worry is wasted energy, things turn out the same whether you worry or not”. All the best for your graduation and travels ahead!
Jenna – Thank you for sharing. My very best wishes to you.
Neelam – Your final words made me say “yes, me too”. A soul here having an adventure in human life 🙂
Maija – My husband and I are obsessed with consciousness and learning, we agree with you wholeheartedly about live and learn, we too treasure the ability to expand our minds and hearts as we journey along.
Jemalou – Good luck with the cruise ship company. And… old couples walking hand in hand… totally inspiring to see long time love. I agree!
Karina – Your shimmering expression is awesome 🙂
Sondra – Random acts of kindness make me super happy too. Reminds me of the inherent good within all people that wants to come out, and sometimes it does… randomly!
Jennifer – WOW that moment when the man walked passed and asked “Are you living with a full heart”. It’s like the opening scene from a movie. I can imagine how a moment like that would have profound impact on your life.
I’am Aril M. From Brunei (maybe some might be wondering where Brunei is, its located in the south china sea,Malaysia is our nearest neighbouring country.)
I was born and raise and still living in Brunei. It’s a developing country of which I never regret to be here.
There are so many lessons in my life, be it good or bad that i appreciate. Because every day for me its a learning day. Although they’re many setbacks in my life, I always remind myself, it couldn’t be that bad and some might had even worst setbacks. For all I know, for as long as I am breathing and no matter how much it pain me, I am jst grateful to be alive and to live another day.
My deepest fears are: I wouldnt be able to cope or comprehend death. Because death is permanent. Having such experience before, where I was invovled in motorcyle accident, that really opened my eyes…it scares me the most to know that I might not be able to see my parents/family/friends anymore..to do all those things that i’ve always wanted to do. Thank god, I survived.
They are many reasons to smile for, especially when i took my time to indulge in those simple little pleasure i.e: to be able to hear my dad’s movement early in the morning which gives me comfort,to be able to help mom prepare the meals on the table even so when she nags a lot about many things, to be able to save 2 cats (which are now an amputatee – but they are super gorgeous), to be able to fund my siblings school fees and needs, to be able to help my grandmama with many simple things,to have my loved ones near me all the time,to be able to randomly pay for someone’s food and not let them know i did, to be able to proved to my high school teacher that i managed to go to university when she was so sure that i wouldnt had the chance to go there…i can go on but for sure many many things made my heart go jolly, even the slightest simple pleasures in life that we always miss looking at, they’ve been huge part of me.
I’ve always dream to be philanthropist although i am not from a well off family, i am not that rich but to be able to help/share what i have to needy people is what i’ve always wanted to do…paying it forward.
Eugene – I love Singapore, such a neat place. Thank you for sharing. I loved your mention of happiness and sadness being impermanent, it reminds me of Eckhart Tolle’s work where he talks about happiness being a response to external and changeable things we respond to, and that inner peace is the unchangeable state we can hold no matter what goes on ‘out there’. Thank you for reminding me of this.
Stephanie – I giggled about what makes you down right laugh out loud, and who knows… maybe one day a flower will! Thanks for sharing your story.
Unathi – I love your name, it is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Sandra H – A new puppy!!!! Eeek, how glorious. Enjoy those fun moments.
Mary Lynn – I am laughing out loud about your friends way of responding to “What do you do”… “About what?” Ha ha, awesome! My best wishes to you for your health and for your move to the farmhouse in future. Sound divine.
Karen K – Thanks for sharing, another reminder for me (amongst the many here on this page) that we are masters of our own happiness.
I was born in Metro Manila, Philippines, and am still currently residing in the Metro.
I find that a lot of things make me smile — sometimes, even inappropriately, but my favorite things to smile about are: my cats, the sky, the smell and taste of coffee, breakfast food (at any time of the day), and words perfectly strung together, whether they form a congruent idea or not. 🙂
The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far is the value of being present, as in being exactly where I am, at that exact time that I am there. I’ve always lived inside my head, and recently, people, such as yourself (through this blog), have helped me realize that reality is so much better than the unfounded could be’s / should be’s I’ve always yearned for in the past.
My deepest fear is not being of value to anyone else.
My greatest dream is to share a part of myself with another person. One subdream of that dream is to write something that would mean something to other people or make a difference in their lives.
I would like to answer the question “Who are you?” with a quote I’ve come to love: “Living is about learning as you go.” I am an eternal student of life; every day, I try my hardest to get up and show up, and make myself and the day count.
Michelle – I wouldn’t have thought of this before reading what you wrote… that some of the best things in life are the unplanned things. Thank you for triggering me to see this through sharing your story 🙂
Cathy – What you say about living to your own truth and not to expectations of others is something I think so many people can relate to, and I am certainly super passionate about that! Thank you for sharing.
Bob – Thanks for your message Bob. I have to hone in on the one thing that resonated most with me… divine occurrences. I feel so blessed and happy when I recognise a sign or synchronicity, it’s magic!
Joey – Thank you for your story. Imagine by John Lennon… LOVE! Namaste.
Karen – After reading your story and a few of the others here where kindness is mentioned, I feel much more aware of the joy we get from witnessing kindness in the smallest of acts in daily life. thank you.
Robyn – I totally respect your open sharing and voice of what you see in the world and what disturbs you about that. It reminds me of what is most important in terms of health and sustainability in this world, to slow down and to simplify. Thank you. 🙂
Alina – Thanks for sharing! I can feel your strong spirit within you when reading your story. B 🙂
Vanessa – Loved your story. What you said about the beauty of everyone sharing here, how you feel touched by and connected to all these strangers sharing – I feel the same way. I do a lot of work around ‘energy’, and you triggered me to see clearly how we’ve created a wave of loving energy, of compassion and a genuine opening of space through this page where all of us have connected. One of the reasons I left my old corporate career and became a writer and coach was because I realised how powerful and healing words can be as a gift in this world. Such is the power of all these amazing people sharing their words authentically here. Loved your wisdom “you can’t outrun your problems” Too true!! Blessings. B x
Hi I’m James and I’m 36 years old.
I was born in Pasig City, Philippines at a hospital near my house.
I still live there in Pasig. But I also live in Makati during the weekdays since it’s much closer to work.
A lot of things make me smile, but nothing makes me smile more than listening to some really good music. I love classical music as well all other types of music.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
I’ve learned that fear is illusion and happiness is a choice. We either let others control us, or we control ourselves. We have to be more independent, yet generous in all things.
What is your deepest fear?
My deepest fear is that I’ll lose my focus and center and drive in life.
What is your greatest dream for your life?
My greatest dream is to be a big positive influence to lots and lots of people. I want to leave something that people will remember me by, 100, 200, thousands of years from now.
Who are you?
I am a humbled person formerly super arrogant, until life events taught me a lesson. But the lessons didn’t break me, instead they taught me gratefulness, responsibility and love.
Kim – Oh, you totally made me realise how much I love road trips too! The open road, wind whistling through the window. Ahhh. Thanks for sharing :0
Nithin – Wow, “using self as a reference point”, that really triggered my thought processes. It resonates deeply. Thank you.
Jay – I totally want to know what a dog going a helicopter with its head looks like!! You have me intrigued. My dog does lots of crazy moves but this sounds too funny not to ask! Thank you for sharing about challenging ourselves to take chances, I believe life begins at the end of our comfort zone and while its uncomfortable I finally feel fully alive!
Cherie – Thanks for sharing. Courage makes me smile too. B 🙂
Lucinda – I have visions of you sitting in your Nana’s caravan, it sounds like such a lovely place and a wonderful tradition to have done it for so many years. I really enjoyed reading your story. Thank you. Best wishes for wherever you travel abroad next to get your fix!
Fiona – Thank you for sharing about chemical sensitivity. More and more this has been on my mind, consciously cutting out processed food and with balance, eating as much food that comes straight from nature. I’m not super focused on it, but do my best to rebalance my diet at the moment. Thanks Fiona 🙂
Hello everyone. Name’s Sharon. Born and still living in Sarawak, Malaysia.
What makes me smile to see the happiness glow in people’s eyes when I do something good to them
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is to love myself more than others even though I love helping out and wears my heart on my sleeves but I deserve to be loved as well.
Deepest fear would be being alone for the rest of my life.
My greatest dream is to be a well known dancer, artist and to do things I love everyday without worrying about financial burden. Be there for the ones who need me especially my family and my loved ones.
I am a daughter, a lady looking for true love in process. Has a passion towards artsy area in many ways.
Kathryn V – The message from your friend, about your presence in her life… I don’t even know what to say. How beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing this.
Rich – About learning valuable lessons through the most trying of times… I hear ya! I believe it’s about breakdowns to get to breakthroughs. Thanks for sharing your story Rich 🙂
Marcy – “Make your life your own” That’s a quotable quote! Really resonates. Thanks for contributing your message.
Jag – Your life lesson #1 about choices rings very true for me. Thanks for sharing! B 🙂
Wenkai – Hello from New Zealand to New Zealand! I love your message in your story … don’t think too much just enjoy the ride! YES 🙂
Delina – You are more than welcome to put the link on your website and thanks for sharing the blog with others so we can continue to spread the opportunity to sharing stories of who we really are.
Salsa – Great words, stand for what you want and DO IT! Brill 🙂
Tamerie – A very dear friend of mine was living in Coronado for many years, I’ve only seen photos but looks amazing. Thank you for sharing your story so openly and my heart feels deeply for you with losing your brothers. I honour the survivor that you are. Blessings. B x
Donna Sue – Awesome Thoreau quote that I haven’t read before. Thanks for sharing it with everyone here.
Joanne – Your message about still having a purpose here on this earth reminds me of something I heard years ago that always sticks with me. I can’t remember where I heard it but it is something like ‘if your heart is still beating, you’re not done yet’ and I always feel like this means that are very being here is our purpose and while we may never know how we touch the lives of others or what our contribution will mean in the future when we’re gone, the fact we are here is evidence we still have things to do and lives to contribute to. Blessings and thanks for reminding me of this.
Mandy – I can feel your strength in your story, you are courageous and I love your insight from those challenges that you really can do anything. Thank you for sharing.
Aril – The simplest of things, to be grateful for being alive. Yes, thank you for saying that. A lady at a cafe I visited last month was smiling brightly and I asked why she was so happy and she said “Because this morning I woke up and my heart was beating strong and the sun was shining” and I thought, YES it’s as simple as that! Beautiful.
Alisa – “Get up and show up” – I will carry this little message with me as one of my favourites. Blessings to you. B 🙂
James – Fear is an illusion and love is real. Thank you for reminding us all and for sharing your story.
I have spent a day reading and replying to all these amazing stories here and my cup feels filled up with love!!
I just wanted to say to Angel and Marc, thank you so much. Thank you for this wonderful site, for all that you do to bring light into the lives of others and I think everyone that follows you will agree that the world is a better place for it.
You are a wealth of wisdom and this quote from you is now one of my favourites… “Good things fall apart so that better things can fall together”.
?Where were you born?
I was born in a Hospital, later known as Fort Defiance Hospital in Arizona USA.
?Where do you live now?
I live amongst the many dignified people I love most, the Navajo. In Arizona, on the Navajo Tribal Reservation.
?What makes you smile?
First and foremost, silly antics of my growing nature involving my two children, their impeccable humor elicits mine and brings a smile to my face; next is beautiful pictures in my mind when I pray and meditate.
?What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
Keep in mind my retirement capabilities and reach my goals of being the best person I can be.
?What is your deepest fear?
My deepest fear is not being able to let my family know how I feel and how much I love them.
?What is your greatest dream for your life?
My greatest dream for my life consists of learning the unknown, each and every day, to endure and persevere to the utmost challenges in life. To see my children become the best they can be.
?Who are you?
I am a reservation girl with a big heart!
I was born in San Jose, California. After moving to multiple states and overseas since 2000, I call Seattle, Washington home.
My wife and children make me smile. A wonderful hike in the forest makes me smile. A glorious sunset and sunrise make me smile. Completing simple tasks to challenging projects make me smile.
The most important lesson I’ve learned in life is to not wait for the opportunity, but make the opportunity. Don’t sit and keep hoping life will start. You have to make it happen today.
My deepest fear is that I didn’t live enough. Every day is precious and should be lived wonderfully. This means to laugh loudly, take challenges head on, hug hard, talk to your family and friends and listen, and to not fear what you don’t know.
My dream is to always learn, continue to question, and to pass this passion to my children so that they may find their own path in life, just as I have.
I go to this amazing site every morning to start my day. I don’t often add anything but after reading so many stories from people around the world, which made me smile, I decided I should add to the growing group.
Where were you born?
I was born in London, UK in the early 1950’s
Where do you live now? I now live in Portsmouth, Hampshire. A naval port with a rich history and I love being by the sea.
What makes you smile?
Many things make me smile..when I allow them to! I smile when I see people happy, I smile when I see my daughters together as best friends, I smile when I look at my little dog, even though he wakes me up at 0430! I smile when I write about my life. I have learnt that I can find reasons to smile (even for a moment) during the darkest times in my life.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
I am always learning new important lessons (even at the age of 60) but the enduring ones are (1) That I cannot change other people, I can only change how I respond to them and (2) that I have to be the change I want to see in the world (behaviours mean more than words)
What is your deepest fear?
I am not sure about my deepest fear. Of course dying before I become a grandmother is one, but I know that may not be my deepest…so as I write these words the fear comes to me…that I won’t have the courage to find the peace that eludes me..because I get trapped into continuing to hold onto working to be ‘a known person’ and earn money ‘to be able to buy nice things’ when I know that is not where peace for me lies now. Peace is when I am creating, meditating, living…
What is your greatest dream for your life?
Now that is easy…after writing the above, it is to reassure the frightened needy child in me that I can let go of being someone with the ‘right’ things…and find my peace..and see who I am.
Who are you?
Well…at the moment I am a traveller/discoverer within my own soul…I am finding and letting go of the ‘bags’ that hold my spirit down from flying…
I am also a mother, sister, daughter, student, lover, volunteer, writer….but I wonder how I will answer this next year!
I was second born out of 5, only girl, in Gretna, LA raised way down South in Plaquimines Parish. I now reside in Mississippi.
I smile at my children’s giggles, silly stories and all their accomplishments big or small.
I have many great life lessons. An old preacher once told me “Don’t ever say never, or you probably will.” Those words have proven to be true in my life over and over, therefore I stopped saying never! My Mother was brutally murdered at the age if 41 and two years later my 15 year old Brother was killed by a hit and run driver. I learned pretty early on from this that justice is not always earthly, God doesn’t necessarily want you to know everything and the most important…. Always choose your words carefully that you will speak whether to a stranger, loved one or friend. It could be the very last words you speak or the last words that person will ever hear. Thankfully, I had nice last memories with my loved ones, but I know people that likely regret theirs. A smile can change a life and you certainly never know what the lady in the grocery line or the driver speeding down the highway is going through. Always try to be kind and it really is better to not say anything if you have nothing good to say at all!
My deepest fear is loosing a child. My 13 year old Son has refractory Epilepsy, I fear for his life every single night.
My deepest desire is that when the Father calls me home my children will have many happy memories of me and they will build on the foundation of Bibical Principles that I have taught them to their own children.
I am Denise, wife to Brian (24 years), Home School Mother to six blessings ages 23, 21, 17, 13, 8 and 3. I am an avid researcher in many subjects and enjoy reading when life permits…
My name is Wangui. I was born in Nairobi, Kenya. I grew up on a farm on the outskirts of Nairobi, and I live in a small town near where I grew up now. I married my childhood sweetheart and I could not be happier!
My little nephew makes me smile, my husband’s silly jokes, and cooking up all sorts of dishes is my joy! Spending time with my family also gives me unspeakable joy!
I have learnt that life is life! It is not hard, easy, difficult, or any other labels we may place on it. Life is what we make it, what we fill it with, what we expect from it. Life is like an echo, it always gives back what it is given, so give it your best!
My deepest fear is the obstacles I face and will continue to face as I strive to be true to myself, to live my dream and to be fearless in embracing life!
My greatest dream is to give back, enrich people’s lives, even if it is with just a smile or a hug. I dream of a world with less suffering and want, because someone took the time to be human to their fellow men! I want to give as much as I can to anyone who needs it.
I am a thinker, I contemplate everything and I love to weigh my options. I am a teacher and learner of life and love. I am a daughter, sister, wife and aunt, all roles that I carry with pride and love. I express my love freely and I am not afraid to be different. I am dependable, reliable, and curious about how people perceive life. I love my life and I look forward to embracing each new day with appreciation, courage and love!
My name is Irina. I was born in Bucharest, Romania and have lived here most of my life.
I smile often, mostly when I’ve accomplished something that moves me. What also makes me smile greatly is innocence and kindness in people, like people on the street smiling without obvious reason. And on some days even the sun makes me smile 🙂
I fear myself, not having the strength of becoming better. I fear giving up and failing myself. I fear disappointing others and being left out, having no friends. I fear having to make choices and choosing wrong. Sometimes I also fear people and social interactions as much as I want and need them to be happy.
The biggest lesson learned – to ask for help and not see vulnerability as a weakness but a strength. To show my true self and accept who I am without asking others to accept me first. Both are lessons I’m still learning and I think I will be learning all my life.
When you ask me my biggest dreams and who I am, I’m always without an answer. I can define myself through my job but I’m always discontent because that’s not all that I am. I could say I am a trainer, a writer, a singer… I do this and that, but I never feel it’s me I’m talking about. I’ve changed my life so much the last 2 years, and I’ve learned I’m much more than meets the eye.
I’m an introvert, silent observer of others and small moments and gestures. I’m a foodie trying to switch to raw vegan. I’m a sister and a daughter, a friend to others and my biggest critic. I’m an artist – singer, dancer at heart, painter and hand made accessories creator. I’m a writer and a trainer, a traveler and a nomad at heart. I am kind and passionate, a perfectionist, a growing woman.
thank you for this wonderfull article which made me smile and cry,which spoke directly to my heart.
My name is Dallas, I was born in Houston, TX and I still live here.
Seeing my family and friends happy makes me smile. Seeing the joy in their eyes makes me happy.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that life is short. My father was killed on Christmas eve 2012. He was taken too soon and had so much left he wanted to accomplish. That pushes me to follow my dreams and live everyday with out regret.
My deepest fear is failure. Failing in my life scares me the most, but I also know failing at something is a lesson learned and to keep trying until I get it right. You have to keep pushing and staying positive.
My greatest dream is having a family of my own one day. To have little ones running around my house with my husband chasing them around. And to be able to follow my career dreams as well.
For a very silly reason–I’m afraid the person who told me about this site will figure out who I am considering how important they were, and still are to me. Despite my illogical fear…I’m going through with this because I think it’ll be therapeutic for me.
I was born on the Eastern Shore of Cambridge, Maryland. Currently I live closer to the Washington, D.C area where I grew up most of my life, but I’m transition of moving to either New York or California.
What makes me smile? The laughter of children, their curiosity and boldness to discover things–how they wear their naievity so proudly because everything is so new to them.
Cooking for people, especially people that I love.
That moment when you look in someone’s eyes and you know that they love you for how you are, exactly how you are, at that very moment. That feeling of warmth when they hold your hand on breezy day.
When I show people my art, and seeing the joy they have from experiencing it. I’m very hard on myself about what I create but I put my all into every illustration, every storyboard that I create.
French movies from the 60’s make me smile a lot too. I think that Agnes Varda’s work influenced a lot of French filmmakers in the 60’s and there was a huge explosion of cinematic greatness during that time. I’m an 80’s kid but that period of film resonates with me a lot.
Catherine Deneuve.
Charlize Theron.
I’m also bias to a lot of 80’s film as well. Fall Fashion, and beautiful women confidently wearing that kind of clothing makes me smile.
I love Soho.
One of the most important life lessons that I’ve learned (still learning) is that despite how incredibly flaw I am as a person–or how flawed anyone is..we all deserve a chance (or two) at a good life. To understand our worth, to be confident in the shoes we’re in and that its ok if not everyone understands us, loves us, or understands our goals. That even though some people may misunderstand you and judge you for things that aren’t relevant to who you are…we’re all wonderful people in some way and we should be willing to see people for who they really are, not just what society makes us feel we should be.
My deepest fears are not meeting my goals, being stuck in a job that I currently despise, and feeling as if I’m not good enough to be loved, to be trapped in a life where I’m not happy.
While I’m making an effort to move toward my goals it’s taken a little longer than expected–other people I know seem to be moving “faster” and at times it cripples me with doubts and fear but I fight against it constantly with positivity and production. Most people have no idea how I feel inside regarding my own worth and how much I fight with it.
Someone came/left into my life a few years ago and they made such an incredible impact that the things I learned from them, the way they approached life actually helped shaped me into who I am today. I still have flaws, I still get jealous over men who look even remotely like Ryan Gosling because I feel they have an E-Z Pass to acceptance, love, and success but I know that I’m incredible person, and that the few that see the value in me are worth more than I can imagine.
My greatest dream in life, would be that my original work reaches the masses in a way that allows me the creative freedom to tell a story that only I can tell, collaborating with companies/studios that look up to, creating the project that I’ve had in my head for over 7 years.
I kinda hope Tumblr falls in love with it as well :p.
I’m a big kid trapped in an adult’s body whose youthfulness permeates everything I do with my art, my personality, and how I view things in life. I’m a guy who loves making people laugh with my off-beat jokes and personal vernacular. I’ve been told I could be a comedian. Maybe if I have enough drinks I’ll give it a shot.
I’m a creative through and through. I love art, music, and fashion to almost an obscene amount (supposedly from a guy’s perspective). I can only that at some point in my life I can have someone to share my success with, and all of the wonderful things I can potentially offer to someone by just being me.
I’m someone who’s trying to enjoy his life the best way he can.
(For the record, reading almost everyone’s responses encouraged me to make this post. Thank you so much!)
Hello everyone, my name is katlin ( said cat-linn)
I was born in a city called mission in B.C Canada
I now live just a short drive from there in Langley.
The things that make me smile most are random acts of kindness, weather it be totally strangers helping total strangers or friends helping friends. It reminds me that the world is a beautiful place.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that no matter how rough your day is going or going to get, it always makes it easier with friends and a smile.
I would have to say that my deepest fear is to fail, I know it has to happen to get where I need to be. But it doesn’t make it any easier 😛
My greatest dream is to live life to the fullest, not waste chances and never look at something and say I “wish I tried that” I don’t need to make all the money in the world, just so long as I enjoy what I’m doing and it puts food on the table.
Who am I? I am a friend, a good person, loyal, and trusting. I am active and don’t enjoy sitting my couch, unless it’s to read a book 😉 but most of all I am myself, never to be altered by someone else’s opinion.
Hello, I’m Laura, from London, Canada (not England).
I grew up in Canada, but 3000 miles away on the West Coast in Vancouver. I moved across the country in early high school, when I was faced with a great deal of bullying and three school changes in under three years. This has made it very difficult for me to abandon roots that I lay down in a city. Part of this is the reason I currently commute every week between London and Toronto (2.5 hours) in order to maintain what I jokingly call my double life.
I just received my undergraduate degree in Theatre and English, and am currently enrolled in Law school. However, I am also a dancer. Every weekend I spend in Toronto with my wonderful Brazilian Zouk team (a kind of Brazilian partner dance – look up Kadu and Larissa on Youtube if you are interested) teaching, training and performing.
I’ve been lucky enough to also run a not-for-profit student salsa team in London. It’s safe to say dance dominates a large part of my life, despite starting into it quite late.
It has also become my dream. I’m lucky enough to attend dance congresses around the world (next week: Poland and Amsterdam) and to write my own blog about the more intellectual components of partner dance. I want to eventually open a private practice law firm which will allow me to use the second floor as a not-for-profit dance studio for groups and socials that can’t afford big city studio rental rates.
I fear not being able to balance my career and my dance. Family and friends in this balance I don’t fear, since both my significant other and most of my friends are dancers, and my family is very small… there is always time for them. But, the last person I want to become is the individual who misses all the passion in the world by being in an office and chasing only financial stability and a promotion.
Born in Latvia, still here now and I don’t think I could ever truly want to live anywhere else. Spending time between dorms, my parents’ house in my hometown and my grandparents’ home by the sea.
The knit socks my mom gives me every year for my birthday make me smile. Drinking camomile tea and eating bread with my grandma’s plum jam makes me smile. So do late night phone calls from my accidental best friend (though he always wakes me up). It’s the little things, that’s what I’m trying to say.
The greatest life lesson? Forgiveness. Forgiving both myself and others. It helped me find peace.
I fear being unlovable. I still struggle a lot with my warped sense of self-worth and still often think that I’m unworthy of love.
My biggest dream? Living life with a meaning and ending up happy, peaceful and surrounded by people that care about me.
I don’t know who I am yet but I’m damn close to figuring it out.
Sharon – Thank you for sharing your story from Malaysia. Blessings 🙂
Betsy – I just want to say that I felt emotion welling up inside me reading your story. Even though we are strangers, I send you hugs and all the love in the world. Bx
Jenn – Your story fascinated me and I love that the images in your meditations and prayers bring smiles and joy for you, I feel the same way about what I see in my meditations. Thank you for sharing!
Brett – YES! I love your “Make the opportunity” message. Awesome
Sue – Wow, the fear and the dream you wrote about hit home for me, as I spent a long time trying to reassure my inner frightened child by getting the right things and doing the right things, and those things never bring us what we need. Just like you say, it’s in the letting go and finding inner peace that the reassurance comes. Thank you so much. I really felt what you meant in those words.
Denise – The life lessons you’ve shared are so powerful, I really take those onboard for myself. Thank you. B
Wangui – I think I’ll have to quote you on this one “Life is not all the labels we place on it”… amazo! Thank you.
Arzu – May your dreams come true as you travel to the places that call to you the most. Thank you for sharing!
Irina – Totally resonate with what you said about vulnerability is a strength not a weakness. Not sure if you’ve read the book by Dr Brene Brown… Daring Greatly? It’s AMAZING, about how the courage to be vulnerable can transform our lives. Thanks for sharing. B 🙂
Hey Stephanie – thanks for your feedback and kind words. Bx
Dallas – Thank you so much for sharing your words, fears and dreams. Blessings. B
Mr Baseball – Awesome to read your story. I resonated particularly with your wisdom about how not everyone will understand us and that’s okay. I used to get so caught up in thinking everyone had to understand or “get” me but it doesn’t work that way. A good life lesson to share with others, so thank you.
Kat – I love your words … “I am myself, never to be altered by someone else’s opinion”
Laura – Inspiring story, that you are loving and living your passion with dancing. I think many people will read your story and gain inspiration from it. Thank you!
Thank you again so much for posting this and making us all “think” about who we really are, our passions, our dreams, our hurts. Thank you for taking the time to acknowledge almost all of our responses. It is through sharing that we can grow as individuals and as a society. I have been coming back on here throughout this week for everyones best advice. I find this place as as a constant source of healing for me. It is a breath of fresh air every time I see a Marc and Angel update in my email box. And yes, I am a huge planner. But I mean it when I said that. There is one person in life who has truly tought me that THE BEST THINGS in life are those not planned. 🙂
When I was four years old, my parents emigrated to Canada and then on to the United States a few years later. I spent my elementary and high school years in the Chicago area. After high school I lived in Germany again for 2 years, and then moved to the beautiful state of Colorado and have been here ever since.
The things that make me smile are animals, flowers, beautiful music, and ice cream!
The most important lesson I’ve learned is to be content with what I have. Inner joy and contentment can never be taken away from you.
My deepest fear is losing my husband of over 40 years. My husband is my rock and my best friend. As we get older, it is inevitable that one of us will have to leave the other behind, and I dread that day!
My greatest dream would be for my husband and I to take a marvelous, over-the-top family vacation to DisneyWorld with our two sons, their wives and our six grandsons. It would be so wonderful to see them all having fun and laughing and relaxing.
Who am I? I am an old woman with a heart overflowing with love, although I am seldom given the opportunity to express it.
My family was everything to me but they have all moved on and I am just an afterthought to them, as they climb the corporate ladder, fill their McMansions with stuff, and are constantly on the go.
I was the only child born to a 29 year old mother, and 36 year old father (who had 2 children from a previous marriage) in Brookline MA, who supposedly was impossible to be conceived.. My mother prayed for 6 years for a child of her own and throughout her eventual pregnancy, was told by the doctors that it was a hysterical pregnancy. It was for that reason, I was named Christine Faith (Christian Faith).
I currently live in the tiniest state, Rhode Island. You can drive anywhere in this state in a hour or less, yet I am ashamed to say that I haven’t seen everything this state offers despite living here nearly 30 years.
My 2 yr old granddaughter is what makes me smile.. how she calls me her best friend, how she rubs my back when I groan with pain, how she kisses my forehead, my cheeks, and throws her little arms around my neck while she sings, “I love you, a bushel and a peck, and a hug around the neck”. She always makes me smile.
Life’s most important lessons… You can tell the true character of a person by how they treat babies, animals, and their mother.. Also, true beauty comes from the soul, not from the skin we are in. I also have to say that I learned that one must live every day like it’s their last because of several close calls.. Remember to say I love you, compliment a job well done, encourage those who need it, help those less fortunate; Never ever stay angry, forgive even if it’s hard, apologize even if it is against your nature, because you may never get the chance to correct wrongs.
My deepest fear is that my loved ones will not be “saved”, despite my best efforts.. I pray that we spend eternity in heaven together.
The greatest dream of my life is to see all my grandchildren live to their full potential and to change this world for the better. My life is almost over, I haven’t accomplished much that I had planned to accomplish, I can only hope that my children and grandchildren learn from my mistakes.
I’m a born again child of God, a mother and grandmother owned by a 6 month old Golden Retriever named Sadie who delights me on a daily basis, someone who loves to read, play games that exercise my mind, who enjoys seeing the leaves turn color in fall, the first snowflakes turning the landscape into a shimmering scene, and who can find beauty in everything that our great God has created.
Just thought I would share something a friend shared with me. There are no failures in life, only feedback.
I am Diana, born in Wyoming, moved to Colorado, graduated from high school, moved back to Wyoming, then back to Colorado. Graduated from Colorado State and moved to Oregon for three months before returning to Colorado. Wish to retire in Wyoming.
My husband is a fun and funny person. I love his smile and that makes me smile.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far? When my mother died my brother commented that she lived until she died. I think that is the way to be.
What is your deepest fear? That I will die not having been that best that I could have been.
What is your greatest dream for your life? That I can make this planet a safer place for animals through habitat restoration, spaying and neutering pets, and finding homes for homeless pets. Also getting perverts off the streets and into jails so that our children will be safe as well.
Who are you? Don’t know yet. Still creating myself. 🙂
Born and raised in sunny Hollywood California, it was a love hate relationship. After 27 years, I packed up and drove to the wonderful Denver Colorado. Thats when I feel my life really started and landed me where I am today. Hanoi, Vietnam.
Realizing that the goals I set for myself 5 years ago have all been met puts such a huge smile on my face. Most of the goals have been reached in the past year alone. It makes me so proud of how far I have come. But the even bigger smiles are the FaceTime chats to the other side of the world. Living 8,000 miles away from home can be hard, but still being able to see the faces of loved ones warms my heart.
The most important lesson I have learned in life, is that courage holds the key to life. Life is short and full of flips and unpredictable turns. You need to roll with it and realize that every moment in your life, good or bad, has lead you to where you are today. At the age of 19, I lost my mother to cancer. At 23 I beat cancer, and at 24 I sent out “erase the dates.” I can still find the silver lining to each misfortune.
My deepest fear, as silly as this sounds, is setting new goals for myself. This past year of my life changed so quickly that I find myself scared of whats happening next. I had dreams to travel the world, and was offered a job as a international trainer with a company I love and have worked with for 7 years. Hearing the list of countries they want to locate to next is scary. It’s not just a week at a time, but 6 months to a year. How do you find love on the road?
My greatest dream in life is to have lived a life my children want to hear all about. To have amazing stories and adventures to share with my loved ones. Boxes of photos, treasures, and love notes from my life for them marvel and ask about.
I am Jaclyn, who took my life into my own control and made my dreams come true. Excited about where I am headed next.
I love this blog, it is inspiring and motivating and this one was just what I needed to see today. To think about. Thank you Marc and Angel for this blog, thank you Bernadette for your amazing post.
Forty-four years ago I was born in West Islip, NY, which is located on the south shore of Long Island.
I live in the desert of Las Vegas, NV under a very, very big sky and I am grateful every day to be here. This is where I belong now.
What makes me smile? Laughter. Cats, dogs, chipmunks. The sky, the ever-changing clouds in the big desert sky. The sunrise, the sunset. A glass of wine and conversation with a friend. Love, feeling it or seeing it expressed between others. The stars. The moon. My coffee and contemplation time in the morning. My morning routine of writing in my gratitude journal and happy journals. Dancing. Singing. Feeling gratitude. Anticipation. Experiencing nature. Climbing up and looking down, because I conquered a fear. The pictures my sister sends me of my niece. Meditating.
My greatest life lessons:
One: That every thought I think is an affirmation and that my thoughts, these affirmations, create the life I am experiencing. If I am not happy with what I am getting, it is up to me to change what I’m affirming, thinking, and creating. That I have the power to do so.
Two: There are no mistakes, only lessons. I look for the lessons, not the failures. Sometimes it takes a little time to get there, but now I know to look for the lessons and let go of the rest.
Three: To be grateful for everything.
My greatest fears:
I have had many fears. Fear of failure. Fear of heights. Fear of flying. Fear of being wrong. Fear of looking or sounding stupid. They held me back. I often said “Oh no I can’t, I’m afraid of…” and then it hit me… One day, I will reach the end of my life and I am choosing now what that will be like. A mountain of regrets because I was “too afraid” or a a lifetime of amazing memories because I challenged my fears, even if slowly and in baby steps at times. Now I fly if I want to go somewhere. I rock climb. I speak up and say what I think. I say yes and I do things. Even if I look silly. Even if I’m scared. I am living now. My biggest fear is to regret the things I did not do and to leave this life un-lived.
Affirmation: I have no fear, I only have love.
My dreams:
To make a difference, to travel, to see the world, to learn, to find and fulfill my unique purpose, to empower other people find and fulfill their own, and to have a partner to enjoy and appreciate it all with.
I am Evolving. Every day, in every way, I grow, I learn, I experience, and I share it with anyone that wants to learn as well. I am both eternal and temporary and here to learn something in this lifetime.
Good morning,
I didn’t even read the entire story and I’m already wanting to comment. The question itself has been on my mind for days. Simply said, my story is a collection of stories of my own personal encounters combined with those stories of other people. Every single person has shaped my personal story and vice versa.
These days, my stories are becoming richer because of the amount of people that want to share their stories to me. Every day, I make it a point to spend one-on-one time with someone different and listen to them without interjecting with my story unless asked.
Try it out, it’s really interesting. People love to talk about themselves and you can gather a lot from just listening. I’ve been writing about these experiences the past year and am working with writers to turn these notes and stories into a blog or book.
My name is Jacqueline. I was named after the first lady Jacqueline Kennedy by my father who thought she was the most elegant woman he had ever seen since coming to America.
I write, I write to breathe. Then, I get scared and stop writing for long periods of time, but the stories never seem to leave me head.
I love all types of people, music and cultures, it’s like living in a flower garden, all sorts of beautiful, thorny and strange flowers all together in one garden.
My biggest fear is fear itself. I call it moody or procastation, but in reality it’s just fear by another name.
My biggest hope is that I’ll get the courageous to kick fear out of my life for good.
My name is Nancy.. I was born in Syria. Now, I live in Gaza, Palestine.
What makes me smile is seeing sth odd like someone doing something spontaneously in a place that can best be discribed as “stiff”!
The best lesson I have learned is that Home is not where you “are”, it is where you can “be” yourself.
My greatest dream is to be free, and be myself. I don’t wanna be married coz society wants so. I want to stay single, live my way, spend the rest of my life travelling and helping people the best way I can. i want to help transforming this world.
My deepest fear is to end up losing all that I have while trying to fulfill that dream, and Not make it come true. I am afraid to end up seeing a different ‘me’ in the mirror…
B – Thanks for sharing. “B” is my nickname as well. I enjoyed your story. Blessings to you.
Michelle – Thanks for taking the time to share your kind words and feedback! x
Birgit – I enjoyed your story and it was nice reading that you are in Colorado… I feel more and more that it is a place I want to visit.
Christine – Amazing how you came to be named, thank you for sharing that. And, Sadie sounds gorgeous, how much joy our puppies bring into our lives! 🙂
Diana – I really love the words “There are no failures, only feedback”. Brilliant! I have a funny little thing I say, that there is no failure in my life, only “Pending success”.
Jaclyn -I’m inspired reading your post, living your dreams, being courageous… very best wishes for wherever you flow next in your life.
Nicola – Reading your “what makes me smile” list is like reading my own!! I was smiling reading your list because those are all my favourites too! Awesome. I love the feeling of courage in your story, of living consciously and walking through fear so you can experience all of life. Blessings. B 🙂
Jenn – Good luck with your blog/book! Sounds brilliant.
Jacqui – It was lovely to read your story. Thank you for sharing it. 🙂
Nancy B – Thanks for sharing your message and my best wishes to you.
Have a wonderful weekend to everyone, wherever you are in the world, whatever you are doing. May the sun shine upon you! Today it is raining heavily where I am in New Zealand, but I still feel like the sun is shining (just above the clouds!). Much love, Bernadette x
Oh wow. Great topic. Hearing all of your stories and finding out what makes people tick are my favorite things about writing.
My name is Melissa and I’m a music journalist contributor at Huffington Post and HuffPo Live. I’m also a screenwriter aspiring to be produced and play with the big boys eventually.
I was born and lived most of my life on the Alabama Gulf Coast in America, and recently made a cross-country move to the California Bay Area.
What makes me smile and in-the-gut happy is meeting new and interesting people and learning how they came to be who they are. Character development is a total joy for me with screenwriting.
The best lesson I’ve learned so far is that no matter how bad things are good always comes around again.
My biggest fear is failure, but I’m determined to move forward and upward despite it.
My biggest dream(s) for my life is to have my own successful online music magazine, and to see my scripts produced and on “the big screen.”
I am a writer, heart and soul. It’s what centers me. I am a philosopher in a perpetual learning state. And I am truly grateful for the life I’ve lived so far. I’ll never regret it for being boring.
My name is Heather.
I was born in a suburb of Toronto.
I currently live in Orillia (1 city north of Toronto).
My children make me smile 🙂
My greatest dream is to be free and have peace, write a novel and paint an love o. A faraway island , with my two perfectly healthy children.
My greatest fear is losing my children.
The most important lesson to be is a bit of a best of ” to have joy of life and reason to be, to never sell yourself short and always remember that this too shall pass”.
I am a mother, daughter, friend, and recently lost my lover to another, so most importantly I am a student and a learner and I am more resilient than I gave myself credit for <3
Love all the messages, have read them all.
Xoxo to all
I’m Julie
– Born in the UK
– Live in Auckland, NZ, which I love
– Every day I get to wake up and go to sleep snuggling the love of my life – my soul mate, and that makes me smile
– Most important life lesson – the realisation that there is more to life than climbing the career ladder, having 2.4 children, and retiring to the country!
Deepest fear is that I cannot do anything to help my sister who is battling her own demons. I fear for her health, her life and how it impacts my niece and nephew
I am dreaming of a live of travel, which starts November 2014! Exciting, scary and exhilarating all at the same time. And I can’t wait.
My name is Benito. I was born in The Netherlands. Now I lived in the Philippines where I do voluntary work with Gawad Kalinga. I’ve also lived in a small island in the Caribbean, in Germany, Switserland, England and a short period (2 months) in the US. Over the years, I’ve connected with many different places, cultures and people, and now the world has become my home. In the process, I’ve lost an identity reference that exists outside of me which often makes me feel lonely. But then I remember the many so dear and close friends I’ve made over the years from all over the world, and I remember how blessed I am with so many friends.
What gives me profound joy and makes my heart smile is the play of children, and randomly witnessing an act of caring and of loving from one person to another.
Perhaps the most important lesson I’ve learned so far is to be genuine and truthful at all times and never to elevate my individual interests over those of others. But I’ve also learned that these lessons are probably never-ending.
My deepest fear is to delude myself in my understanding of reality. Not to understand correctly the way other people experience their life and world is my constant worry. I have to learn to be more at peace with my limited ability to understand, and be confident in my always trying my best.
The greatest dream for my life is to contribute substantially to a world in which the vast majority of people have all the internal capabilities and external opportunities they need to pursue the fulfillment of their lives, rather than survival, conformity or security – and to bond with my soul mate.
I am a complex, profound, mad and gifted young man on the path of fulfilling his life moment by moment, following the inexhaustible symphony of his heart and mind in harmony.
My name is Otis I was born in Bristol, but was raised and lived all my life so far in Weston-super-Mare.
A lot of things make me smile, but I smile the most when I know I’ve improved myself. e.g. Passed my limits in the gym, Learned something new or Got past my anxieties and talked to that hot girl across the room.
If you want a better life you have to put the effort in and make the change to make that better life a reality. And you have to start making those changes now!
My deepest fear is getting to the top and realising I can’t keep up with the best.
My dream is to travel. I want to be able to travel the world, see and experience new cultures, and just awe at everything life has to offer to the fullest without money being a restriction.
To the world I’m an average guy from a small town, but if you ask me right now, I’m a explorer still on a course of self-discovery of who I truly am.
My name is Rae, and I’m only 14, but I really enjoy reading the articles on marcandangel, so I decided to comment. : )
I was born in Sydney, Australia.
I still live in Sydney and I always have. My family and I moved houses when I was five months old. I wish I had more memories of the townhouse.
I smile when I see that sparkle in someone’s eyes when they look at the one they love.
I smile when I see a clear blue sky, or a rainy day.
I smile when I know I’m about to change someone’s life.
I smile at random acts of kindness.
I smile when I see others smile.
The most important lesson I have ever learned in my 14 years is that life is short. I know it seems strange for me to say that; I haven’t even lived half my life yet. But already, there are things in my life that I regret so much, from that bad haircut I agreed to get last weekend, to those enemies I made that could’ve been turned to friends before it was too late.
I feel like I have not a second to waste. Every moment is precious, every smile, every laugh, every good day is precious.
My deepest fear is letting the world bully me into becoming something that I’m not, by becoming something that everyone else wants me to be. I pride myself on my individuality, and I don’t want to lose that. Ever.
My greatest dream is to become a writer. I also want to indulge in some kind of work where I get to help people. I’d love to work for charities, even though it may not provide the best money. The smiles that you see on other people’s faces is rewarding enough for me. It’s an amazing feeling to know that you’re doing your part to make a real difference in someone’s life.
I am not who I want to be at the moment. But I am making this promise to myself; that I won’t change for anyone, and I will do my best to smile every day no matter how I am feeling. I know I can do great things, I just have to step out and be me. No one else, just me.
I am in awe of all the heartfelt, inspiring honesty and truth that is written in these posts. I see great value in answering these questions for ourselves every year! Thank you to all for writing from ‘within’.
Where was I born? I was born near Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. I grew up in stunningly beautiful Vancouver, BC and lived for years in the cold north of Timmins, Ontario, and the beauty of southwestern Ontario.
Where do I live now? I now live in the desert of Tucson, AZ, and plan to move back to the fresh, green mountains and ocean of Vancouver next summer.
What makes me smile? Worship music, joyful and lively music, birds singing, water (oceans and streams, fountains), connecting with my daughter (who lives in LA), time with family and cherished friends, quotes that inspire, the smiles of others, unbridled laughter and giggles, clever humor, natural beauty (of people and places), genuine kindness between people, sharing, gratitude. Encouragement. Exploring. Beauty.
What is my biggest life lesson? At 53. To embrace the person God made me. That my dreams matter. To take ownership of creating my ‘story’ and not be so afraid. To be an advocate for the ‘frightened inner child’ within. To be wary of toxic people. I had no idea such people exist, until I gave 10 years of my life to one, and learned that narcissists are not able to love others (only blame and control and be emotionally abusive). To be open and genuine and kind to all, but to be selective as to who is in my ‘inner circle’, so that purpose, joy and peace, not turmoil, will reign.
What do I fear the most? Not being the catalyst I want to be to help others find, define and live out their dreams. Marrying badly again.
My biggest dream: To run Success Teams (a la Barbara Sher, see her website) to help others gather the courage to launch their dreams, small and large. To write what will inspire others to live large. To share what I have learned so others do not ‘put their pearls before swine’ and give their value and potential away to others who devalue and mistreat it.
Who am I? A child of God, grateful to be His Daughter. An encourager; a job search coach and writer of resumes and LinkedIn Profiles to help others use their talents and skills. A traveler. A mom (of a now 23 year old) who believes there is nothing as joyous and wonderful as enjoying being present with one’s children. A sponge who soaks up inspiration and wants so desperately to share it with others. A continual learner of life! And so much more!
I was born in South Africa, and have been living in Australia since i was 12 years old. I have always felt that this is not where i belong though.. i had a tarot card reader tell me once that i have something waiting for me in Egypt – so i have a desire of visiting there one day
Making other people laugh with true happiness and making people smile with gratitude and reciprical love makes me smile, from my heart
the biggest lesson i have learnt so far – is too be careful of waisting time and energy trying to impress others.
Im scared i wont find my calling, or more importantly that i am not looking for my path correctly .. i am new to marc and angel and the idea of self improvement… i am very hopeful that the amazing person inside me will be revealed – i just hope i am not late
i dream to be an abundant provider and protector – to many.
I am Sharon. Shaz. 24. A scorpio and Earth Dragon which gives me a subconcious feeling of strength and courage. Thank you for your time x
It’s really inspiring to see so many people from all over the world respond to this questions and open themselves to a bunch of practical strangers on the internet about the most important things in their lives. It really somehow calms me down to see how similar we all are, most of us afraid to fail to fulfil our dreams or plans. I would really like to have more of this kind of conversations in real life too.
Where was i born? A big city in the centre of Poland to a pretty strange small family which i still struggle to understand.
Where do i live now? Warsaw, capital of Poland where im graduating with a bachelor of architecture in about a month.
What makes me smile? Funny coincidences, music and above all those occasions when i manage to stop, look up the sky or at the trees and realise just about how awesome and vast the universe is.
what is my biggest lesson? It’s impossible to make other people happy by changing yourself/ If in a bad situation one can still decide to remain optimistic and see the good side of life/ People will judge you based on their own criteria, experience, and what they imagine to be true about you. It’s interesting to see what they think but ultimately useless when looking for real self/ action is the only remedy for the sick heart.
What do i fear the most? By now i had to already break a few social expectations and lately had one of those talks with a colegue when you hear there are “normal” ways of doing things and you should adhere to those. I’m really worried to one day find this out to be true. I’m afraid life will catch up with me and I will be forced to live a life expected of me in terms of my background. I’m also afraid of being misunderstood.
What is my biggest dream? I hope to be able to live a life of constant learning and experimentation. Professionally i would hope to somehow find a work where i could contribute to innovative technologies or creating new tools for productivity. Personally i would love to find a balance within myself and connect deeply to people around me [husband, friends].
Who am i? Stubborn optimist and a dreamer. Rebel at heart. Fierce advocate for kindness no matter the conditions. Tech-freak and a proud nerd. Odds-beater. A fan of west irland, this blog and especially all the stories shared above.
This is my first time commenting since I discovered this site 3 years ago.. but I really loved this and wanted to share my story
My name is Tawfiq and I am all about discovering and learning new things.. I love wandering, developing and trying new stuff everyday.
I was born in Jordan and I currently live in Jordan which is in the Middle east.
What really makes me smile is seeing people doing a random act of kindness without expecting anything in return
The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far? Training mental strength and how fast time goes by
My deepest fear is to run out of time before I leave my fingerprint into making this world a better place
I dream of becoming a person that people will be inspired by and hear them ask themselves what did he have that we don’t?
I’m just trying to be a better person everyday and always make sure that the people who loves me know how much I appreciate them being by me and always supporting me no matter what happens.
Thank you for this amazing article and for letting me sharing a part of my story
My name is Carlee. I was born in Sarasota, Florida but grew up in Alaska in a small town of about 2,000 people called Haines. I currently live in Anchorage, Alaska and I am a 4th year college student about to graduate with a bachelors in Fashion and Design Marketing.
My nephew brings me the most joy. He was born on my birthday and continues to make me smile and laugh every single day. He will be 3 in December.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that to want to be someone else is a waste of the amazing person you are.
My biggest fear is failure and not being good enough.
My greatest dream for my life is to be so in love with someone that I could have nothing else in the world but that one person and be completely happy and content with my life.
I am a shopaholic. I am passionate. I am a hopeless romantic. I am an athlete. I am a student. A sister. A daughter. An aunt. I have big dreams, a big heart and a big smile. I am me and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Hi, I was born in Nottingham, England and now live in rural Lincolnshire with my husband, 2 dogs, one horse and 9 chickens!
What makes me smile is the simple things- the sun on my face, the fresh air, and most of all the trust of animals especially after adversity that they trust another human . Also that my husband understands me gives me a warm smiley feeling inside.
The most important lesson I have learned is very recent- to be me and not a person someone else wanted me to be. I have lived being dominated by a controlling mother, and only now am beginning to be free from the thoughts that determined me and always doing more and more, never to be recognized, praised or acknowledged by the one person I needed it from.I now know that , that isn’t important but what is, is that it’s ok to be me.
My biggest fear is illness. I have had over 20 operations and thank God that nothing is serious but dread if it could be.
My biggest dream, well that’s quite hard, as I now feel I am living my dream, being retired ( early!) and being very busy doing the things I enjoy. I look forward to my husband retiring and living the dream even more.
Who am I? Ha! I now know I am me. A person who matters, has her own thoughts and dreams and it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks as long as its OK by me. That’s been a hard one and typing this I am astounded that I have written it and am in tears. I am not the 5 year old, I have felt I am around my mother, for the last 50 years. I am Nicki, a wife, an animal lover, an athlete, a baker who is loving it!
I thank you all for the blog, it has helped me along so much….x
Joanne Aquino says
Hi I am Joanne.
Where do you live now? I am a Filipino and living in the Philippines.
What makes you smile? My two kids who makes a lot of time to say thank you, and genuine smiles and kisses when I see them everyday makes me smile.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far? The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far is that I still have a big purpose here on earth. That having a positive outlook in life I can make something good to every person that I meet on a daily basis. Weather how simple it may be to others, but have a big impact on myself, because, as you count your blessings, many more blessing will come!
What is your deepest fear? My deepest fear is not accomplishing my purpose in life and that God already take my life away.
What is your greatest dream for your life? My greatest dream of my life is to have a business that I can support the needs of my kids and my family, and later on will sustain and help more people.
Who are you? I am a Single Mom, with 2 loving kids, with 2 supporting brothers who work hand in hand with me in raising my kids together with my beautiful and loving mom and with good relatives and friends and having a good boss at my present job.And I thank God and hope he will give me more blessings to help more people.
Bernadette says
Catherine M – I hope everyone reads your message about the courage to re-create. This is what I’ve written about in my books, being willing to say it’s never too late and any breakdown or challenge we can recover from if we are willing to evolve from it. Your story shared reminds me of caterpillars becoming butterflies, and some of us have to do that a few times in this life. Thank you for sharing. B x
Diana – When I read your story and then read your dream, it felt to me like you already live your dream and I’m energised reading what you wrote. Having published 2 books I know what a mammoth effort it is to go through that process, the love poured into a book and the logistics to make it happen, so props to you for your amazing work! And another synchronicity, I adore horses and would love nothing more than to ride every day! Thank you for sharing… it has lifted me up.
Yahya – great idea you offered with “How are you living?” as an alternative question! Thanks for sharing.
Amandah – Awesome rocking attitude. Talk about energy… I can tell no matter what you do you’re gonna grab life by the horns. Go you!
Jim – Thank you for sharing. Your words are very wise, each moment being subject to change, nothing is ever set in concrete. Learn that lesson the hard way myself, not to attach to outcomes and to stay present and allowing. 🙂
Susan – I’m nodding reading your story. Particularly the age old saying money can’t buy happiness.
Judy – Thanks for telling us all about the advice your mother gave you. No one thrives alone in this world, and I’m nodding along to what your mother said, we all need each other, our connections are our access point to thriving. And… I agree: you are awesome!
Eileen – Thank you for reminding me to be grateful for my health. It is something I can sometimes take for granted.
Sammie – Owning our strengths and our weaknesses… powerful and not something everyone does. The more people like you who role model being open and embracing our humanness, the better this world will be. Thanks for being you.
Bernadette says
Nana – I hope others read your message about the inner child emerging, it generates such a response within me. Let’s all embrace our inner child!
Alissa – The way you describe your work says a lot to me “Help people to represent themselves”. I’m not kidding, I literally feel emotional reading that. Those people are blessed to have you in their lives.
Millicent – Thanks for sharing. You remind us to leave our failures in the past and that carrying them with us into the present just steals the possibilities and love from the present.
Donna – The “be the change” quote is one of my favourites too. I love your story and you resonate on so many levels for me. Funniest synchronicity about you want to go out on a limb to taste the sweet fruit – one of my books is about my journey to do just that and following my deepest calling, and it’s called “Going Out on a Limb”! Funny! 🙂
Anoop – My husband would love your story, I will share it with him. We are always remembering to be the awareness, the watching presence behind the ego, and I laughed out loud while nodding in agreement when I read your message about the ego who says “I have no ego” in order to satisfy the go!! Hilarious and so true.
James – Thank you for sharing about pushing to find the extremes. You remind me to continue to nudge the edges of my comfort zone.
Aniyah – Mmm. I’m intrigued, I want to know how you got from France to Tennessee! You can email me on my website directly if you want to. B 🙂
mandy says
I am Mandy. I was born in a suburb of Cleveland Ohio in a cookie-cutter development filled with kids my age to play with. I had a great memory-filled childhood there.
I now live in Upstate New York, having moved here to get married to the man I am now divorced from. I love the small-town atmosphere here. It is a great place to raise children. Although I miss Cleveland, I have so many new friends here that mean the world to me. Now my heart calls two places home!
Humor makes me smile. I love laughing along with friends and loved ones. That ability makes life worth living. Imagine how boring lunch break would be if we all sat there stoicly talking shop. I love happiness in others. I love how, even in hard times, those you love can make you smile. I love that I can make others smile as well.
The most important lesson I have learned is that I really can do anything. I went through some trying times and was so very scared. When I got divorced, I worried myself sick about how I was going to cope with finances and child-rearing and home ownership all by myself. But I persevered. I sought out information, I asked for help, I dug in and plowed ahead. I am not going to pretend it was easy, but now that I look back, I am pretty sure I can overcome anything that comes my way.
My biggest fear is losing someone I love, especially my children.
My greatest dream is to live the best life I can. I want to enjoy each moment, make the best decisions, and not let life pass me by. If I reach the end of my life knowing that I did it justice, I will be happy.
I am a great mother, a good friend, an honest and loyal person. I am grateful for all the wonderful people I have in my life. I am excited to see what the future brings.
I loved reading everyones stories here. I have read them all!!!
Bernadette says
Anna V – Your message about no point in stressing reminds me of my dad always saying to me “Worry is wasted energy, things turn out the same whether you worry or not”. All the best for your graduation and travels ahead!
Jenna – Thank you for sharing. My very best wishes to you.
Neelam – Your final words made me say “yes, me too”. A soul here having an adventure in human life 🙂
Maija – My husband and I are obsessed with consciousness and learning, we agree with you wholeheartedly about live and learn, we too treasure the ability to expand our minds and hearts as we journey along.
Jemalou – Good luck with the cruise ship company. And… old couples walking hand in hand… totally inspiring to see long time love. I agree!
Karina – Your shimmering expression is awesome 🙂
Sondra – Random acts of kindness make me super happy too. Reminds me of the inherent good within all people that wants to come out, and sometimes it does… randomly!
Jennifer – WOW that moment when the man walked passed and asked “Are you living with a full heart”. It’s like the opening scene from a movie. I can imagine how a moment like that would have profound impact on your life.
Aril M says
Hello everyone.
I’am Aril M. From Brunei (maybe some might be wondering where Brunei is, its located in the south china sea,Malaysia is our nearest neighbouring country.)
I was born and raise and still living in Brunei. It’s a developing country of which I never regret to be here.
There are so many lessons in my life, be it good or bad that i appreciate. Because every day for me its a learning day. Although they’re many setbacks in my life, I always remind myself, it couldn’t be that bad and some might had even worst setbacks. For all I know, for as long as I am breathing and no matter how much it pain me, I am jst grateful to be alive and to live another day.
My deepest fears are: I wouldnt be able to cope or comprehend death. Because death is permanent. Having such experience before, where I was invovled in motorcyle accident, that really opened my eyes…it scares me the most to know that I might not be able to see my parents/family/friends anymore..to do all those things that i’ve always wanted to do. Thank god, I survived.
They are many reasons to smile for, especially when i took my time to indulge in those simple little pleasure i.e: to be able to hear my dad’s movement early in the morning which gives me comfort,to be able to help mom prepare the meals on the table even so when she nags a lot about many things, to be able to save 2 cats (which are now an amputatee – but they are super gorgeous), to be able to fund my siblings school fees and needs, to be able to help my grandmama with many simple things,to have my loved ones near me all the time,to be able to randomly pay for someone’s food and not let them know i did, to be able to proved to my high school teacher that i managed to go to university when she was so sure that i wouldnt had the chance to go there…i can go on but for sure many many things made my heart go jolly, even the slightest simple pleasures in life that we always miss looking at, they’ve been huge part of me.
I’ve always dream to be philanthropist although i am not from a well off family, i am not that rich but to be able to help/share what i have to needy people is what i’ve always wanted to do…paying it forward.
Have a great day every one…xoxoxo
Bernadette says
Eugene – I love Singapore, such a neat place. Thank you for sharing. I loved your mention of happiness and sadness being impermanent, it reminds me of Eckhart Tolle’s work where he talks about happiness being a response to external and changeable things we respond to, and that inner peace is the unchangeable state we can hold no matter what goes on ‘out there’. Thank you for reminding me of this.
Stephanie – I giggled about what makes you down right laugh out loud, and who knows… maybe one day a flower will! Thanks for sharing your story.
Unathi – I love your name, it is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Sandra H – A new puppy!!!! Eeek, how glorious. Enjoy those fun moments.
Mary Lynn – I am laughing out loud about your friends way of responding to “What do you do”… “About what?” Ha ha, awesome! My best wishes to you for your health and for your move to the farmhouse in future. Sound divine.
Karen K – Thanks for sharing, another reminder for me (amongst the many here on this page) that we are masters of our own happiness.
Alisa says
Hi, I’m Alisa.
I was born in Metro Manila, Philippines, and am still currently residing in the Metro.
I find that a lot of things make me smile — sometimes, even inappropriately, but my favorite things to smile about are: my cats, the sky, the smell and taste of coffee, breakfast food (at any time of the day), and words perfectly strung together, whether they form a congruent idea or not. 🙂
The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far is the value of being present, as in being exactly where I am, at that exact time that I am there. I’ve always lived inside my head, and recently, people, such as yourself (through this blog), have helped me realize that reality is so much better than the unfounded could be’s / should be’s I’ve always yearned for in the past.
My deepest fear is not being of value to anyone else.
My greatest dream is to share a part of myself with another person. One subdream of that dream is to write something that would mean something to other people or make a difference in their lives.
I would like to answer the question “Who are you?” with a quote I’ve come to love: “Living is about learning as you go.” I am an eternal student of life; every day, I try my hardest to get up and show up, and make myself and the day count.
Bernadette says
Michelle – I wouldn’t have thought of this before reading what you wrote… that some of the best things in life are the unplanned things. Thank you for triggering me to see this through sharing your story 🙂
Cathy – What you say about living to your own truth and not to expectations of others is something I think so many people can relate to, and I am certainly super passionate about that! Thank you for sharing.
Bob – Thanks for your message Bob. I have to hone in on the one thing that resonated most with me… divine occurrences. I feel so blessed and happy when I recognise a sign or synchronicity, it’s magic!
Joey – Thank you for your story. Imagine by John Lennon… LOVE! Namaste.
Karen – After reading your story and a few of the others here where kindness is mentioned, I feel much more aware of the joy we get from witnessing kindness in the smallest of acts in daily life. thank you.
Robyn – I totally respect your open sharing and voice of what you see in the world and what disturbs you about that. It reminds me of what is most important in terms of health and sustainability in this world, to slow down and to simplify. Thank you. 🙂
Alina – Thanks for sharing! I can feel your strong spirit within you when reading your story. B 🙂
Vanessa – Loved your story. What you said about the beauty of everyone sharing here, how you feel touched by and connected to all these strangers sharing – I feel the same way. I do a lot of work around ‘energy’, and you triggered me to see clearly how we’ve created a wave of loving energy, of compassion and a genuine opening of space through this page where all of us have connected. One of the reasons I left my old corporate career and became a writer and coach was because I realised how powerful and healing words can be as a gift in this world. Such is the power of all these amazing people sharing their words authentically here. Loved your wisdom “you can’t outrun your problems” Too true!! Blessings. B x
James says
Hi I’m James and I’m 36 years old.
I was born in Pasig City, Philippines at a hospital near my house.
I still live there in Pasig. But I also live in Makati during the weekdays since it’s much closer to work.
A lot of things make me smile, but nothing makes me smile more than listening to some really good music. I love classical music as well all other types of music.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
I’ve learned that fear is illusion and happiness is a choice. We either let others control us, or we control ourselves. We have to be more independent, yet generous in all things.
What is your deepest fear?
My deepest fear is that I’ll lose my focus and center and drive in life.
What is your greatest dream for your life?
My greatest dream is to be a big positive influence to lots and lots of people. I want to leave something that people will remember me by, 100, 200, thousands of years from now.
Who are you?
I am a humbled person formerly super arrogant, until life events taught me a lesson. But the lessons didn’t break me, instead they taught me gratefulness, responsibility and love.
Bernadette says
Kim – Oh, you totally made me realise how much I love road trips too! The open road, wind whistling through the window. Ahhh. Thanks for sharing :0
Nithin – Wow, “using self as a reference point”, that really triggered my thought processes. It resonates deeply. Thank you.
Jay – I totally want to know what a dog going a helicopter with its head looks like!! You have me intrigued. My dog does lots of crazy moves but this sounds too funny not to ask! Thank you for sharing about challenging ourselves to take chances, I believe life begins at the end of our comfort zone and while its uncomfortable I finally feel fully alive!
Cherie – Thanks for sharing. Courage makes me smile too. B 🙂
Lucinda – I have visions of you sitting in your Nana’s caravan, it sounds like such a lovely place and a wonderful tradition to have done it for so many years. I really enjoyed reading your story. Thank you. Best wishes for wherever you travel abroad next to get your fix!
Fiona – Thank you for sharing about chemical sensitivity. More and more this has been on my mind, consciously cutting out processed food and with balance, eating as much food that comes straight from nature. I’m not super focused on it, but do my best to rebalance my diet at the moment. Thanks Fiona 🙂
Sharon says
Hello everyone. Name’s Sharon. Born and still living in Sarawak, Malaysia.
What makes me smile to see the happiness glow in people’s eyes when I do something good to them
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is to love myself more than others even though I love helping out and wears my heart on my sleeves but I deserve to be loved as well.
Deepest fear would be being alone for the rest of my life.
My greatest dream is to be a well known dancer, artist and to do things I love everyday without worrying about financial burden. Be there for the ones who need me especially my family and my loved ones.
I am a daughter, a lady looking for true love in process. Has a passion towards artsy area in many ways.
Bernadette says
Kathryn V – The message from your friend, about your presence in her life… I don’t even know what to say. How beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing this.
Rich – About learning valuable lessons through the most trying of times… I hear ya! I believe it’s about breakdowns to get to breakthroughs. Thanks for sharing your story Rich 🙂
Marcy – “Make your life your own” That’s a quotable quote! Really resonates. Thanks for contributing your message.
Jag – Your life lesson #1 about choices rings very true for me. Thanks for sharing! B 🙂
Wenkai – Hello from New Zealand to New Zealand! I love your message in your story … don’t think too much just enjoy the ride! YES 🙂
Delina – You are more than welcome to put the link on your website and thanks for sharing the blog with others so we can continue to spread the opportunity to sharing stories of who we really are.
Salsa – Great words, stand for what you want and DO IT! Brill 🙂
Tamerie – A very dear friend of mine was living in Coronado for many years, I’ve only seen photos but looks amazing. Thank you for sharing your story so openly and my heart feels deeply for you with losing your brothers. I honour the survivor that you are. Blessings. B x
Donna Sue – Awesome Thoreau quote that I haven’t read before. Thanks for sharing it with everyone here.
Joanne – Your message about still having a purpose here on this earth reminds me of something I heard years ago that always sticks with me. I can’t remember where I heard it but it is something like ‘if your heart is still beating, you’re not done yet’ and I always feel like this means that are very being here is our purpose and while we may never know how we touch the lives of others or what our contribution will mean in the future when we’re gone, the fact we are here is evidence we still have things to do and lives to contribute to. Blessings and thanks for reminding me of this.
Mandy – I can feel your strength in your story, you are courageous and I love your insight from those challenges that you really can do anything. Thank you for sharing.
Aril – The simplest of things, to be grateful for being alive. Yes, thank you for saying that. A lady at a cafe I visited last month was smiling brightly and I asked why she was so happy and she said “Because this morning I woke up and my heart was beating strong and the sun was shining” and I thought, YES it’s as simple as that! Beautiful.
Alisa – “Get up and show up” – I will carry this little message with me as one of my favourites. Blessings to you. B 🙂
James – Fear is an illusion and love is real. Thank you for reminding us all and for sharing your story.
Bernadette says
I have spent a day reading and replying to all these amazing stories here and my cup feels filled up with love!!
I just wanted to say to Angel and Marc, thank you so much. Thank you for this wonderful site, for all that you do to bring light into the lives of others and I think everyone that follows you will agree that the world is a better place for it.
You are a wealth of wisdom and this quote from you is now one of my favourites… “Good things fall apart so that better things can fall together”.
Blessings to you!
Bernadette x
Jenn says
?Where were you born?
I was born in a Hospital, later known as Fort Defiance Hospital in Arizona USA.
?Where do you live now?
I live amongst the many dignified people I love most, the Navajo. In Arizona, on the Navajo Tribal Reservation.
?What makes you smile?
First and foremost, silly antics of my growing nature involving my two children, their impeccable humor elicits mine and brings a smile to my face; next is beautiful pictures in my mind when I pray and meditate.
?What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
Keep in mind my retirement capabilities and reach my goals of being the best person I can be.
?What is your deepest fear?
My deepest fear is not being able to let my family know how I feel and how much I love them.
?What is your greatest dream for your life?
My greatest dream for my life consists of learning the unknown, each and every day, to endure and persevere to the utmost challenges in life. To see my children become the best they can be.
?Who are you?
I am a reservation girl with a big heart!
Brett says
I was born in San Jose, California. After moving to multiple states and overseas since 2000, I call Seattle, Washington home.
My wife and children make me smile. A wonderful hike in the forest makes me smile. A glorious sunset and sunrise make me smile. Completing simple tasks to challenging projects make me smile.
The most important lesson I’ve learned in life is to not wait for the opportunity, but make the opportunity. Don’t sit and keep hoping life will start. You have to make it happen today.
My deepest fear is that I didn’t live enough. Every day is precious and should be lived wonderfully. This means to laugh loudly, take challenges head on, hug hard, talk to your family and friends and listen, and to not fear what you don’t know.
My dream is to always learn, continue to question, and to pass this passion to my children so that they may find their own path in life, just as I have.
I am Brett and life is good.
Sue says
I go to this amazing site every morning to start my day. I don’t often add anything but after reading so many stories from people around the world, which made me smile, I decided I should add to the growing group.
Where were you born?
I was born in London, UK in the early 1950’s
Where do you live now? I now live in Portsmouth, Hampshire. A naval port with a rich history and I love being by the sea.
What makes you smile?
Many things make me smile..when I allow them to! I smile when I see people happy, I smile when I see my daughters together as best friends, I smile when I look at my little dog, even though he wakes me up at 0430! I smile when I write about my life. I have learnt that I can find reasons to smile (even for a moment) during the darkest times in my life.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far?
I am always learning new important lessons (even at the age of 60) but the enduring ones are (1) That I cannot change other people, I can only change how I respond to them and (2) that I have to be the change I want to see in the world (behaviours mean more than words)
What is your deepest fear?
I am not sure about my deepest fear. Of course dying before I become a grandmother is one, but I know that may not be my deepest…so as I write these words the fear comes to me…that I won’t have the courage to find the peace that eludes me..because I get trapped into continuing to hold onto working to be ‘a known person’ and earn money ‘to be able to buy nice things’ when I know that is not where peace for me lies now. Peace is when I am creating, meditating, living…
What is your greatest dream for your life?
Now that is easy…after writing the above, it is to reassure the frightened needy child in me that I can let go of being someone with the ‘right’ things…and find my peace..and see who I am.
Who are you?
Well…at the moment I am a traveller/discoverer within my own soul…I am finding and letting go of the ‘bags’ that hold my spirit down from flying…
I am also a mother, sister, daughter, student, lover, volunteer, writer….but I wonder how I will answer this next year!
Thank you all for sharing!
Denise says
I was second born out of 5, only girl, in Gretna, LA raised way down South in Plaquimines Parish. I now reside in Mississippi.
I smile at my children’s giggles, silly stories and all their accomplishments big or small.
I have many great life lessons. An old preacher once told me “Don’t ever say never, or you probably will.” Those words have proven to be true in my life over and over, therefore I stopped saying never! My Mother was brutally murdered at the age if 41 and two years later my 15 year old Brother was killed by a hit and run driver. I learned pretty early on from this that justice is not always earthly, God doesn’t necessarily want you to know everything and the most important…. Always choose your words carefully that you will speak whether to a stranger, loved one or friend. It could be the very last words you speak or the last words that person will ever hear. Thankfully, I had nice last memories with my loved ones, but I know people that likely regret theirs. A smile can change a life and you certainly never know what the lady in the grocery line or the driver speeding down the highway is going through. Always try to be kind and it really is better to not say anything if you have nothing good to say at all!
My deepest fear is loosing a child. My 13 year old Son has refractory Epilepsy, I fear for his life every single night.
My deepest desire is that when the Father calls me home my children will have many happy memories of me and they will build on the foundation of Bibical Principles that I have taught them to their own children.
I am Denise, wife to Brian (24 years), Home School Mother to six blessings ages 23, 21, 17, 13, 8 and 3. I am an avid researcher in many subjects and enjoy reading when life permits…
Wangui says
My name is Wangui. I was born in Nairobi, Kenya. I grew up on a farm on the outskirts of Nairobi, and I live in a small town near where I grew up now. I married my childhood sweetheart and I could not be happier!
My little nephew makes me smile, my husband’s silly jokes, and cooking up all sorts of dishes is my joy! Spending time with my family also gives me unspeakable joy!
I have learnt that life is life! It is not hard, easy, difficult, or any other labels we may place on it. Life is what we make it, what we fill it with, what we expect from it. Life is like an echo, it always gives back what it is given, so give it your best!
My deepest fear is the obstacles I face and will continue to face as I strive to be true to myself, to live my dream and to be fearless in embracing life!
My greatest dream is to give back, enrich people’s lives, even if it is with just a smile or a hug. I dream of a world with less suffering and want, because someone took the time to be human to their fellow men! I want to give as much as I can to anyone who needs it.
I am a thinker, I contemplate everything and I love to weigh my options. I am a teacher and learner of life and love. I am a daughter, sister, wife and aunt, all roles that I carry with pride and love. I express my love freely and I am not afraid to be different. I am dependable, reliable, and curious about how people perceive life. I love my life and I look forward to embracing each new day with appreciation, courage and love!
Arzu says
My name is Arzu.
I was born in NJ and still live here.
My family and friends’ babies make me smile, as do some of my favorite TV shows. My boyfriend makes me smile as well.
The most important life lesson I’ve learned is that everyone wants to be loved and accepted. Therefore, I try to treat everyone kindly.
My deepest fear is not being able to travel.
My greatest dream is to travel the world.
I’m a girl just trying to find her way in this beautiful world.
Irina says
My name is Irina. I was born in Bucharest, Romania and have lived here most of my life.
I smile often, mostly when I’ve accomplished something that moves me. What also makes me smile greatly is innocence and kindness in people, like people on the street smiling without obvious reason. And on some days even the sun makes me smile 🙂
I fear myself, not having the strength of becoming better. I fear giving up and failing myself. I fear disappointing others and being left out, having no friends. I fear having to make choices and choosing wrong. Sometimes I also fear people and social interactions as much as I want and need them to be happy.
The biggest lesson learned – to ask for help and not see vulnerability as a weakness but a strength. To show my true self and accept who I am without asking others to accept me first. Both are lessons I’m still learning and I think I will be learning all my life.
When you ask me my biggest dreams and who I am, I’m always without an answer. I can define myself through my job but I’m always discontent because that’s not all that I am. I could say I am a trainer, a writer, a singer… I do this and that, but I never feel it’s me I’m talking about. I’ve changed my life so much the last 2 years, and I’ve learned I’m much more than meets the eye.
I’m an introvert, silent observer of others and small moments and gestures. I’m a foodie trying to switch to raw vegan. I’m a sister and a daughter, a friend to others and my biggest critic. I’m an artist – singer, dancer at heart, painter and hand made accessories creator. I’m a writer and a trainer, a traveler and a nomad at heart. I am kind and passionate, a perfectionist, a growing woman.
thank you for this wonderfull article which made me smile and cry,which spoke directly to my heart.
Stephanie says
Hey there Bernadette, you give off energy that feels caring and fun. I bet you are the nurturing friend that REALLY shows up ready to help. Bless you.
Dallas says
My name is Dallas, I was born in Houston, TX and I still live here.
Seeing my family and friends happy makes me smile. Seeing the joy in their eyes makes me happy.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that life is short. My father was killed on Christmas eve 2012. He was taken too soon and had so much left he wanted to accomplish. That pushes me to follow my dreams and live everyday with out regret.
My deepest fear is failure. Failing in my life scares me the most, but I also know failing at something is a lesson learned and to keep trying until I get it right. You have to keep pushing and staying positive.
My greatest dream is having a family of my own one day. To have little ones running around my house with my husband chasing them around. And to be able to follow my career dreams as well.
I yam what I yam, take me or leave me.
Mr_Baseball says
I’m actually pretty afraid to do this.
For a very silly reason–I’m afraid the person who told me about this site will figure out who I am considering how important they were, and still are to me. Despite my illogical fear…I’m going through with this because I think it’ll be therapeutic for me.
I was born on the Eastern Shore of Cambridge, Maryland. Currently I live closer to the Washington, D.C area where I grew up most of my life, but I’m transition of moving to either New York or California.
What makes me smile? The laughter of children, their curiosity and boldness to discover things–how they wear their naievity so proudly because everything is so new to them.
Cooking for people, especially people that I love.
That moment when you look in someone’s eyes and you know that they love you for how you are, exactly how you are, at that very moment. That feeling of warmth when they hold your hand on breezy day.
When I show people my art, and seeing the joy they have from experiencing it. I’m very hard on myself about what I create but I put my all into every illustration, every storyboard that I create.
French movies from the 60’s make me smile a lot too. I think that Agnes Varda’s work influenced a lot of French filmmakers in the 60’s and there was a huge explosion of cinematic greatness during that time. I’m an 80’s kid but that period of film resonates with me a lot.
Catherine Deneuve.
Charlize Theron.
I’m also bias to a lot of 80’s film as well. Fall Fashion, and beautiful women confidently wearing that kind of clothing makes me smile.
I love Soho.
One of the most important life lessons that I’ve learned (still learning) is that despite how incredibly flaw I am as a person–or how flawed anyone is..we all deserve a chance (or two) at a good life. To understand our worth, to be confident in the shoes we’re in and that its ok if not everyone understands us, loves us, or understands our goals. That even though some people may misunderstand you and judge you for things that aren’t relevant to who you are…we’re all wonderful people in some way and we should be willing to see people for who they really are, not just what society makes us feel we should be.
My deepest fears are not meeting my goals, being stuck in a job that I currently despise, and feeling as if I’m not good enough to be loved, to be trapped in a life where I’m not happy.
While I’m making an effort to move toward my goals it’s taken a little longer than expected–other people I know seem to be moving “faster” and at times it cripples me with doubts and fear but I fight against it constantly with positivity and production. Most people have no idea how I feel inside regarding my own worth and how much I fight with it.
Someone came/left into my life a few years ago and they made such an incredible impact that the things I learned from them, the way they approached life actually helped shaped me into who I am today. I still have flaws, I still get jealous over men who look even remotely like Ryan Gosling because I feel they have an E-Z Pass to acceptance, love, and success but I know that I’m incredible person, and that the few that see the value in me are worth more than I can imagine.
My greatest dream in life, would be that my original work reaches the masses in a way that allows me the creative freedom to tell a story that only I can tell, collaborating with companies/studios that look up to, creating the project that I’ve had in my head for over 7 years.
I kinda hope Tumblr falls in love with it as well :p.
I’m a big kid trapped in an adult’s body whose youthfulness permeates everything I do with my art, my personality, and how I view things in life. I’m a guy who loves making people laugh with my off-beat jokes and personal vernacular. I’ve been told I could be a comedian. Maybe if I have enough drinks I’ll give it a shot.
I’m a creative through and through. I love art, music, and fashion to almost an obscene amount (supposedly from a guy’s perspective). I can only that at some point in my life I can have someone to share my success with, and all of the wonderful things I can potentially offer to someone by just being me.
I’m someone who’s trying to enjoy his life the best way he can.
(For the record, reading almost everyone’s responses encouraged me to make this post. Thank you so much!)
Kat says
Hello everyone, my name is katlin ( said cat-linn)
I was born in a city called mission in B.C Canada
I now live just a short drive from there in Langley.
The things that make me smile most are random acts of kindness, weather it be totally strangers helping total strangers or friends helping friends. It reminds me that the world is a beautiful place.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that no matter how rough your day is going or going to get, it always makes it easier with friends and a smile.
I would have to say that my deepest fear is to fail, I know it has to happen to get where I need to be. But it doesn’t make it any easier 😛
My greatest dream is to live life to the fullest, not waste chances and never look at something and say I “wish I tried that” I don’t need to make all the money in the world, just so long as I enjoy what I’m doing and it puts food on the table.
Who am I? I am a friend, a good person, loyal, and trusting. I am active and don’t enjoy sitting my couch, unless it’s to read a book 😉 but most of all I am myself, never to be altered by someone else’s opinion.
Laura says
Hello, I’m Laura, from London, Canada (not England).
I grew up in Canada, but 3000 miles away on the West Coast in Vancouver. I moved across the country in early high school, when I was faced with a great deal of bullying and three school changes in under three years. This has made it very difficult for me to abandon roots that I lay down in a city. Part of this is the reason I currently commute every week between London and Toronto (2.5 hours) in order to maintain what I jokingly call my double life.
I just received my undergraduate degree in Theatre and English, and am currently enrolled in Law school. However, I am also a dancer. Every weekend I spend in Toronto with my wonderful Brazilian Zouk team (a kind of Brazilian partner dance – look up Kadu and Larissa on Youtube if you are interested) teaching, training and performing.
I’ve been lucky enough to also run a not-for-profit student salsa team in London. It’s safe to say dance dominates a large part of my life, despite starting into it quite late.
It has also become my dream. I’m lucky enough to attend dance congresses around the world (next week: Poland and Amsterdam) and to write my own blog about the more intellectual components of partner dance. I want to eventually open a private practice law firm which will allow me to use the second floor as a not-for-profit dance studio for groups and socials that can’t afford big city studio rental rates.
I fear not being able to balance my career and my dance. Family and friends in this balance I don’t fear, since both my significant other and most of my friends are dancers, and my family is very small… there is always time for them. But, the last person I want to become is the individual who misses all the passion in the world by being in an office and chasing only financial stability and a promotion.
B. says
Born in Latvia, still here now and I don’t think I could ever truly want to live anywhere else. Spending time between dorms, my parents’ house in my hometown and my grandparents’ home by the sea.
The knit socks my mom gives me every year for my birthday make me smile. Drinking camomile tea and eating bread with my grandma’s plum jam makes me smile. So do late night phone calls from my accidental best friend (though he always wakes me up). It’s the little things, that’s what I’m trying to say.
The greatest life lesson? Forgiveness. Forgiving both myself and others. It helped me find peace.
I fear being unlovable. I still struggle a lot with my warped sense of self-worth and still often think that I’m unworthy of love.
My biggest dream? Living life with a meaning and ending up happy, peaceful and surrounded by people that care about me.
I don’t know who I am yet but I’m damn close to figuring it out.
Bernadette says
Sharon – Thank you for sharing your story from Malaysia. Blessings 🙂
Betsy – I just want to say that I felt emotion welling up inside me reading your story. Even though we are strangers, I send you hugs and all the love in the world. Bx
Jenn – Your story fascinated me and I love that the images in your meditations and prayers bring smiles and joy for you, I feel the same way about what I see in my meditations. Thank you for sharing!
Brett – YES! I love your “Make the opportunity” message. Awesome
Sue – Wow, the fear and the dream you wrote about hit home for me, as I spent a long time trying to reassure my inner frightened child by getting the right things and doing the right things, and those things never bring us what we need. Just like you say, it’s in the letting go and finding inner peace that the reassurance comes. Thank you so much. I really felt what you meant in those words.
Denise – The life lessons you’ve shared are so powerful, I really take those onboard for myself. Thank you. B
Wangui – I think I’ll have to quote you on this one “Life is not all the labels we place on it”… amazo! Thank you.
Arzu – May your dreams come true as you travel to the places that call to you the most. Thank you for sharing!
Irina – Totally resonate with what you said about vulnerability is a strength not a weakness. Not sure if you’ve read the book by Dr Brene Brown… Daring Greatly? It’s AMAZING, about how the courage to be vulnerable can transform our lives. Thanks for sharing. B 🙂
Hey Stephanie – thanks for your feedback and kind words. Bx
Dallas – Thank you so much for sharing your words, fears and dreams. Blessings. B
Mr Baseball – Awesome to read your story. I resonated particularly with your wisdom about how not everyone will understand us and that’s okay. I used to get so caught up in thinking everyone had to understand or “get” me but it doesn’t work that way. A good life lesson to share with others, so thank you.
Kat – I love your words … “I am myself, never to be altered by someone else’s opinion”
Laura – Inspiring story, that you are loving and living your passion with dancing. I think many people will read your story and gain inspiration from it. Thank you!
Michelle says
Bernadette :
Thank you again so much for posting this and making us all “think” about who we really are, our passions, our dreams, our hurts. Thank you for taking the time to acknowledge almost all of our responses. It is through sharing that we can grow as individuals and as a society. I have been coming back on here throughout this week for everyones best advice. I find this place as as a constant source of healing for me. It is a breath of fresh air every time I see a Marc and Angel update in my email box. And yes, I am a huge planner. But I mean it when I said that. There is one person in life who has truly tought me that THE BEST THINGS in life are those not planned. 🙂
Birgit Hansen says
When I was four years old, my parents emigrated to Canada and then on to the United States a few years later. I spent my elementary and high school years in the Chicago area. After high school I lived in Germany again for 2 years, and then moved to the beautiful state of Colorado and have been here ever since.
The things that make me smile are animals, flowers, beautiful music, and ice cream!
The most important lesson I’ve learned is to be content with what I have. Inner joy and contentment can never be taken away from you.
My deepest fear is losing my husband of over 40 years. My husband is my rock and my best friend. As we get older, it is inevitable that one of us will have to leave the other behind, and I dread that day!
My greatest dream would be for my husband and I to take a marvelous, over-the-top family vacation to DisneyWorld with our two sons, their wives and our six grandsons. It would be so wonderful to see them all having fun and laughing and relaxing.
Who am I? I am an old woman with a heart overflowing with love, although I am seldom given the opportunity to express it.
My family was everything to me but they have all moved on and I am just an afterthought to them, as they climb the corporate ladder, fill their McMansions with stuff, and are constantly on the go.
Christine says
I was the only child born to a 29 year old mother, and 36 year old father (who had 2 children from a previous marriage) in Brookline MA, who supposedly was impossible to be conceived.. My mother prayed for 6 years for a child of her own and throughout her eventual pregnancy, was told by the doctors that it was a hysterical pregnancy. It was for that reason, I was named Christine Faith (Christian Faith).
I currently live in the tiniest state, Rhode Island. You can drive anywhere in this state in a hour or less, yet I am ashamed to say that I haven’t seen everything this state offers despite living here nearly 30 years.
My 2 yr old granddaughter is what makes me smile.. how she calls me her best friend, how she rubs my back when I groan with pain, how she kisses my forehead, my cheeks, and throws her little arms around my neck while she sings, “I love you, a bushel and a peck, and a hug around the neck”. She always makes me smile.
Life’s most important lessons… You can tell the true character of a person by how they treat babies, animals, and their mother.. Also, true beauty comes from the soul, not from the skin we are in. I also have to say that I learned that one must live every day like it’s their last because of several close calls.. Remember to say I love you, compliment a job well done, encourage those who need it, help those less fortunate; Never ever stay angry, forgive even if it’s hard, apologize even if it is against your nature, because you may never get the chance to correct wrongs.
My deepest fear is that my loved ones will not be “saved”, despite my best efforts.. I pray that we spend eternity in heaven together.
The greatest dream of my life is to see all my grandchildren live to their full potential and to change this world for the better. My life is almost over, I haven’t accomplished much that I had planned to accomplish, I can only hope that my children and grandchildren learn from my mistakes.
I’m a born again child of God, a mother and grandmother owned by a 6 month old Golden Retriever named Sadie who delights me on a daily basis, someone who loves to read, play games that exercise my mind, who enjoys seeing the leaves turn color in fall, the first snowflakes turning the landscape into a shimmering scene, and who can find beauty in everything that our great God has created.
Diana McKinney says
Just thought I would share something a friend shared with me. There are no failures in life, only feedback.
I am Diana, born in Wyoming, moved to Colorado, graduated from high school, moved back to Wyoming, then back to Colorado. Graduated from Colorado State and moved to Oregon for three months before returning to Colorado. Wish to retire in Wyoming.
My husband is a fun and funny person. I love his smile and that makes me smile.
What is the most important life lesson you’ve learned so far? When my mother died my brother commented that she lived until she died. I think that is the way to be.
What is your deepest fear? That I will die not having been that best that I could have been.
What is your greatest dream for your life? That I can make this planet a safer place for animals through habitat restoration, spaying and neutering pets, and finding homes for homeless pets. Also getting perverts off the streets and into jails so that our children will be safe as well.
Who are you? Don’t know yet. Still creating myself. 🙂
Jaclyn says
Born and raised in sunny Hollywood California, it was a love hate relationship. After 27 years, I packed up and drove to the wonderful Denver Colorado. Thats when I feel my life really started and landed me where I am today. Hanoi, Vietnam.
Realizing that the goals I set for myself 5 years ago have all been met puts such a huge smile on my face. Most of the goals have been reached in the past year alone. It makes me so proud of how far I have come. But the even bigger smiles are the FaceTime chats to the other side of the world. Living 8,000 miles away from home can be hard, but still being able to see the faces of loved ones warms my heart.
The most important lesson I have learned in life, is that courage holds the key to life. Life is short and full of flips and unpredictable turns. You need to roll with it and realize that every moment in your life, good or bad, has lead you to where you are today. At the age of 19, I lost my mother to cancer. At 23 I beat cancer, and at 24 I sent out “erase the dates.” I can still find the silver lining to each misfortune.
My deepest fear, as silly as this sounds, is setting new goals for myself. This past year of my life changed so quickly that I find myself scared of whats happening next. I had dreams to travel the world, and was offered a job as a international trainer with a company I love and have worked with for 7 years. Hearing the list of countries they want to locate to next is scary. It’s not just a week at a time, but 6 months to a year. How do you find love on the road?
My greatest dream in life is to have lived a life my children want to hear all about. To have amazing stories and adventures to share with my loved ones. Boxes of photos, treasures, and love notes from my life for them marvel and ask about.
I am Jaclyn, who took my life into my own control and made my dreams come true. Excited about where I am headed next.
Nicola says
I love this blog, it is inspiring and motivating and this one was just what I needed to see today. To think about. Thank you Marc and Angel for this blog, thank you Bernadette for your amazing post.
Forty-four years ago I was born in West Islip, NY, which is located on the south shore of Long Island.
I live in the desert of Las Vegas, NV under a very, very big sky and I am grateful every day to be here. This is where I belong now.
What makes me smile? Laughter. Cats, dogs, chipmunks. The sky, the ever-changing clouds in the big desert sky. The sunrise, the sunset. A glass of wine and conversation with a friend. Love, feeling it or seeing it expressed between others. The stars. The moon. My coffee and contemplation time in the morning. My morning routine of writing in my gratitude journal and happy journals. Dancing. Singing. Feeling gratitude. Anticipation. Experiencing nature. Climbing up and looking down, because I conquered a fear. The pictures my sister sends me of my niece. Meditating.
My greatest life lessons:
One: That every thought I think is an affirmation and that my thoughts, these affirmations, create the life I am experiencing. If I am not happy with what I am getting, it is up to me to change what I’m affirming, thinking, and creating. That I have the power to do so.
Two: There are no mistakes, only lessons. I look for the lessons, not the failures. Sometimes it takes a little time to get there, but now I know to look for the lessons and let go of the rest.
Three: To be grateful for everything.
My greatest fears:
I have had many fears. Fear of failure. Fear of heights. Fear of flying. Fear of being wrong. Fear of looking or sounding stupid. They held me back. I often said “Oh no I can’t, I’m afraid of…” and then it hit me… One day, I will reach the end of my life and I am choosing now what that will be like. A mountain of regrets because I was “too afraid” or a a lifetime of amazing memories because I challenged my fears, even if slowly and in baby steps at times. Now I fly if I want to go somewhere. I rock climb. I speak up and say what I think. I say yes and I do things. Even if I look silly. Even if I’m scared. I am living now. My biggest fear is to regret the things I did not do and to leave this life un-lived.
Affirmation: I have no fear, I only have love.
My dreams:
To make a difference, to travel, to see the world, to learn, to find and fulfill my unique purpose, to empower other people find and fulfill their own, and to have a partner to enjoy and appreciate it all with.
I am Evolving. Every day, in every way, I grow, I learn, I experience, and I share it with anyone that wants to learn as well. I am both eternal and temporary and here to learn something in this lifetime.
Jenn says
Good morning,
I didn’t even read the entire story and I’m already wanting to comment. The question itself has been on my mind for days. Simply said, my story is a collection of stories of my own personal encounters combined with those stories of other people. Every single person has shaped my personal story and vice versa.
These days, my stories are becoming richer because of the amount of people that want to share their stories to me. Every day, I make it a point to spend one-on-one time with someone different and listen to them without interjecting with my story unless asked.
Try it out, it’s really interesting. People love to talk about themselves and you can gather a lot from just listening. I’ve been writing about these experiences the past year and am working with writers to turn these notes and stories into a blog or book.
Cheers 🙂
Jacqui says
My name is Jacqueline. I was named after the first lady Jacqueline Kennedy by my father who thought she was the most elegant woman he had ever seen since coming to America.
I write, I write to breathe. Then, I get scared and stop writing for long periods of time, but the stories never seem to leave me head.
I love all types of people, music and cultures, it’s like living in a flower garden, all sorts of beautiful, thorny and strange flowers all together in one garden.
My biggest fear is fear itself. I call it moody or procastation, but in reality it’s just fear by another name.
My biggest hope is that I’ll get the courageous to kick fear out of my life for good.
Nancy B says
Woow!! tough Qs…
My name is Nancy.. I was born in Syria. Now, I live in Gaza, Palestine.
What makes me smile is seeing sth odd like someone doing something spontaneously in a place that can best be discribed as “stiff”!
The best lesson I have learned is that Home is not where you “are”, it is where you can “be” yourself.
My greatest dream is to be free, and be myself. I don’t wanna be married coz society wants so. I want to stay single, live my way, spend the rest of my life travelling and helping people the best way I can. i want to help transforming this world.
My deepest fear is to end up losing all that I have while trying to fulfill that dream, and Not make it come true. I am afraid to end up seeing a different ‘me’ in the mirror…
who am I ?
Still searching… 😉
Bernadette says
B – Thanks for sharing. “B” is my nickname as well. I enjoyed your story. Blessings to you.
Michelle – Thanks for taking the time to share your kind words and feedback! x
Birgit – I enjoyed your story and it was nice reading that you are in Colorado… I feel more and more that it is a place I want to visit.
Christine – Amazing how you came to be named, thank you for sharing that. And, Sadie sounds gorgeous, how much joy our puppies bring into our lives! 🙂
Diana – I really love the words “There are no failures, only feedback”. Brilliant! I have a funny little thing I say, that there is no failure in my life, only “Pending success”.
Jaclyn -I’m inspired reading your post, living your dreams, being courageous… very best wishes for wherever you flow next in your life.
Nicola – Reading your “what makes me smile” list is like reading my own!! I was smiling reading your list because those are all my favourites too! Awesome. I love the feeling of courage in your story, of living consciously and walking through fear so you can experience all of life. Blessings. B 🙂
Jenn – Good luck with your blog/book! Sounds brilliant.
Jacqui – It was lovely to read your story. Thank you for sharing it. 🙂
Nancy B – Thanks for sharing your message and my best wishes to you.
Have a wonderful weekend to everyone, wherever you are in the world, whatever you are doing. May the sun shine upon you! Today it is raining heavily where I am in New Zealand, but I still feel like the sun is shining (just above the clouds!). Much love, Bernadette x
Melissa Webster says
Oh wow. Great topic. Hearing all of your stories and finding out what makes people tick are my favorite things about writing.
My name is Melissa and I’m a music journalist contributor at Huffington Post and HuffPo Live. I’m also a screenwriter aspiring to be produced and play with the big boys eventually.
I was born and lived most of my life on the Alabama Gulf Coast in America, and recently made a cross-country move to the California Bay Area.
What makes me smile and in-the-gut happy is meeting new and interesting people and learning how they came to be who they are. Character development is a total joy for me with screenwriting.
The best lesson I’ve learned so far is that no matter how bad things are good always comes around again.
My biggest fear is failure, but I’m determined to move forward and upward despite it.
My biggest dream(s) for my life is to have my own successful online music magazine, and to see my scripts produced and on “the big screen.”
I am a writer, heart and soul. It’s what centers me. I am a philosopher in a perpetual learning state. And I am truly grateful for the life I’ve lived so far. I’ll never regret it for being boring.
Heather says
My name is Heather.
I was born in a suburb of Toronto.
I currently live in Orillia (1 city north of Toronto).
My children make me smile 🙂
My greatest dream is to be free and have peace, write a novel and paint an love o. A faraway island , with my two perfectly healthy children.
My greatest fear is losing my children.
The most important lesson to be is a bit of a best of ” to have joy of life and reason to be, to never sell yourself short and always remember that this too shall pass”.
I am a mother, daughter, friend, and recently lost my lover to another, so most importantly I am a student and a learner and I am more resilient than I gave myself credit for <3
Love all the messages, have read them all.
Xoxo to all
JJ says
I’m Julie
– Born in the UK
– Live in Auckland, NZ, which I love
– Every day I get to wake up and go to sleep snuggling the love of my life – my soul mate, and that makes me smile
– Most important life lesson – the realisation that there is more to life than climbing the career ladder, having 2.4 children, and retiring to the country!
Deepest fear is that I cannot do anything to help my sister who is battling her own demons. I fear for her health, her life and how it impacts my niece and nephew
I am dreaming of a live of travel, which starts November 2014! Exciting, scary and exhilarating all at the same time. And I can’t wait.
Benito B says
My name is Benito. I was born in The Netherlands. Now I lived in the Philippines where I do voluntary work with Gawad Kalinga. I’ve also lived in a small island in the Caribbean, in Germany, Switserland, England and a short period (2 months) in the US. Over the years, I’ve connected with many different places, cultures and people, and now the world has become my home. In the process, I’ve lost an identity reference that exists outside of me which often makes me feel lonely. But then I remember the many so dear and close friends I’ve made over the years from all over the world, and I remember how blessed I am with so many friends.
What gives me profound joy and makes my heart smile is the play of children, and randomly witnessing an act of caring and of loving from one person to another.
Perhaps the most important lesson I’ve learned so far is to be genuine and truthful at all times and never to elevate my individual interests over those of others. But I’ve also learned that these lessons are probably never-ending.
My deepest fear is to delude myself in my understanding of reality. Not to understand correctly the way other people experience their life and world is my constant worry. I have to learn to be more at peace with my limited ability to understand, and be confident in my always trying my best.
The greatest dream for my life is to contribute substantially to a world in which the vast majority of people have all the internal capabilities and external opportunities they need to pursue the fulfillment of their lives, rather than survival, conformity or security – and to bond with my soul mate.
I am a complex, profound, mad and gifted young man on the path of fulfilling his life moment by moment, following the inexhaustible symphony of his heart and mind in harmony.
Otis says
My name is Otis I was born in Bristol, but was raised and lived all my life so far in Weston-super-Mare.
A lot of things make me smile, but I smile the most when I know I’ve improved myself. e.g. Passed my limits in the gym, Learned something new or Got past my anxieties and talked to that hot girl across the room.
If you want a better life you have to put the effort in and make the change to make that better life a reality. And you have to start making those changes now!
My deepest fear is getting to the top and realising I can’t keep up with the best.
My dream is to travel. I want to be able to travel the world, see and experience new cultures, and just awe at everything life has to offer to the fullest without money being a restriction.
To the world I’m an average guy from a small town, but if you ask me right now, I’m a explorer still on a course of self-discovery of who I truly am.
Rae Erin says
My name is Rae, and I’m only 14, but I really enjoy reading the articles on marcandangel, so I decided to comment. : )
I was born in Sydney, Australia.
I still live in Sydney and I always have. My family and I moved houses when I was five months old. I wish I had more memories of the townhouse.
I smile when I see that sparkle in someone’s eyes when they look at the one they love.
I smile when I see a clear blue sky, or a rainy day.
I smile when I know I’m about to change someone’s life.
I smile at random acts of kindness.
I smile when I see others smile.
The most important lesson I have ever learned in my 14 years is that life is short. I know it seems strange for me to say that; I haven’t even lived half my life yet. But already, there are things in my life that I regret so much, from that bad haircut I agreed to get last weekend, to those enemies I made that could’ve been turned to friends before it was too late.
I feel like I have not a second to waste. Every moment is precious, every smile, every laugh, every good day is precious.
My deepest fear is letting the world bully me into becoming something that I’m not, by becoming something that everyone else wants me to be. I pride myself on my individuality, and I don’t want to lose that. Ever.
My greatest dream is to become a writer. I also want to indulge in some kind of work where I get to help people. I’d love to work for charities, even though it may not provide the best money. The smiles that you see on other people’s faces is rewarding enough for me. It’s an amazing feeling to know that you’re doing your part to make a real difference in someone’s life.
I am not who I want to be at the moment. But I am making this promise to myself; that I won’t change for anyone, and I will do my best to smile every day no matter how I am feeling. I know I can do great things, I just have to step out and be me. No one else, just me.
Lisa says
I am in awe of all the heartfelt, inspiring honesty and truth that is written in these posts. I see great value in answering these questions for ourselves every year! Thank you to all for writing from ‘within’.
Where was I born? I was born near Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. I grew up in stunningly beautiful Vancouver, BC and lived for years in the cold north of Timmins, Ontario, and the beauty of southwestern Ontario.
Where do I live now? I now live in the desert of Tucson, AZ, and plan to move back to the fresh, green mountains and ocean of Vancouver next summer.
What makes me smile? Worship music, joyful and lively music, birds singing, water (oceans and streams, fountains), connecting with my daughter (who lives in LA), time with family and cherished friends, quotes that inspire, the smiles of others, unbridled laughter and giggles, clever humor, natural beauty (of people and places), genuine kindness between people, sharing, gratitude. Encouragement. Exploring. Beauty.
What is my biggest life lesson? At 53. To embrace the person God made me. That my dreams matter. To take ownership of creating my ‘story’ and not be so afraid. To be an advocate for the ‘frightened inner child’ within. To be wary of toxic people. I had no idea such people exist, until I gave 10 years of my life to one, and learned that narcissists are not able to love others (only blame and control and be emotionally abusive). To be open and genuine and kind to all, but to be selective as to who is in my ‘inner circle’, so that purpose, joy and peace, not turmoil, will reign.
What do I fear the most? Not being the catalyst I want to be to help others find, define and live out their dreams. Marrying badly again.
My biggest dream: To run Success Teams (a la Barbara Sher, see her website) to help others gather the courage to launch their dreams, small and large. To write what will inspire others to live large. To share what I have learned so others do not ‘put their pearls before swine’ and give their value and potential away to others who devalue and mistreat it.
Who am I? A child of God, grateful to be His Daughter. An encourager; a job search coach and writer of resumes and LinkedIn Profiles to help others use their talents and skills. A traveler. A mom (of a now 23 year old) who believes there is nothing as joyous and wonderful as enjoying being present with one’s children. A sponge who soaks up inspiration and wants so desperately to share it with others. A continual learner of life! And so much more!
Shaz says
Hello everyone! Nice to meet you all <3
I was born in South Africa, and have been living in Australia since i was 12 years old. I have always felt that this is not where i belong though.. i had a tarot card reader tell me once that i have something waiting for me in Egypt – so i have a desire of visiting there one day
Making other people laugh with true happiness and making people smile with gratitude and reciprical love makes me smile, from my heart
the biggest lesson i have learnt so far – is too be careful of waisting time and energy trying to impress others.
Im scared i wont find my calling, or more importantly that i am not looking for my path correctly .. i am new to marc and angel and the idea of self improvement… i am very hopeful that the amazing person inside me will be revealed – i just hope i am not late
i dream to be an abundant provider and protector – to many.
I am Sharon. Shaz. 24. A scorpio and Earth Dragon which gives me a subconcious feeling of strength and courage. Thank you for your time x
maga says
It’s really inspiring to see so many people from all over the world respond to this questions and open themselves to a bunch of practical strangers on the internet about the most important things in their lives. It really somehow calms me down to see how similar we all are, most of us afraid to fail to fulfil our dreams or plans. I would really like to have more of this kind of conversations in real life too.
Where was i born? A big city in the centre of Poland to a pretty strange small family which i still struggle to understand.
Where do i live now? Warsaw, capital of Poland where im graduating with a bachelor of architecture in about a month.
What makes me smile? Funny coincidences, music and above all those occasions when i manage to stop, look up the sky or at the trees and realise just about how awesome and vast the universe is.
what is my biggest lesson? It’s impossible to make other people happy by changing yourself/ If in a bad situation one can still decide to remain optimistic and see the good side of life/ People will judge you based on their own criteria, experience, and what they imagine to be true about you. It’s interesting to see what they think but ultimately useless when looking for real self/ action is the only remedy for the sick heart.
What do i fear the most? By now i had to already break a few social expectations and lately had one of those talks with a colegue when you hear there are “normal” ways of doing things and you should adhere to those. I’m really worried to one day find this out to be true. I’m afraid life will catch up with me and I will be forced to live a life expected of me in terms of my background. I’m also afraid of being misunderstood.
What is my biggest dream? I hope to be able to live a life of constant learning and experimentation. Professionally i would hope to somehow find a work where i could contribute to innovative technologies or creating new tools for productivity. Personally i would love to find a balance within myself and connect deeply to people around me [husband, friends].
Who am i? Stubborn optimist and a dreamer. Rebel at heart. Fierce advocate for kindness no matter the conditions. Tech-freak and a proud nerd. Odds-beater. A fan of west irland, this blog and especially all the stories shared above.
Tawfiq says
This is my first time commenting since I discovered this site 3 years ago.. but I really loved this and wanted to share my story
My name is Tawfiq and I am all about discovering and learning new things.. I love wandering, developing and trying new stuff everyday.
I was born in Jordan and I currently live in Jordan which is in the Middle east.
What really makes me smile is seeing people doing a random act of kindness without expecting anything in return
The most important life lesson I’ve learned so far? Training mental strength and how fast time goes by
My deepest fear is to run out of time before I leave my fingerprint into making this world a better place
I dream of becoming a person that people will be inspired by and hear them ask themselves what did he have that we don’t?
I’m just trying to be a better person everyday and always make sure that the people who loves me know how much I appreciate them being by me and always supporting me no matter what happens.
Thank you for this amazing article and for letting me sharing a part of my story
Carlee H. says
My name is Carlee. I was born in Sarasota, Florida but grew up in Alaska in a small town of about 2,000 people called Haines. I currently live in Anchorage, Alaska and I am a 4th year college student about to graduate with a bachelors in Fashion and Design Marketing.
My nephew brings me the most joy. He was born on my birthday and continues to make me smile and laugh every single day. He will be 3 in December.
The most important life lesson I have learned so far is that to want to be someone else is a waste of the amazing person you are.
My biggest fear is failure and not being good enough.
My greatest dream for my life is to be so in love with someone that I could have nothing else in the world but that one person and be completely happy and content with my life.
I am a shopaholic. I am passionate. I am a hopeless romantic. I am an athlete. I am a student. A sister. A daughter. An aunt. I have big dreams, a big heart and a big smile. I am me and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Nicki says
Hi, I was born in Nottingham, England and now live in rural Lincolnshire with my husband, 2 dogs, one horse and 9 chickens!
What makes me smile is the simple things- the sun on my face, the fresh air, and most of all the trust of animals especially after adversity that they trust another human . Also that my husband understands me gives me a warm smiley feeling inside.
The most important lesson I have learned is very recent- to be me and not a person someone else wanted me to be. I have lived being dominated by a controlling mother, and only now am beginning to be free from the thoughts that determined me and always doing more and more, never to be recognized, praised or acknowledged by the one person I needed it from.I now know that , that isn’t important but what is, is that it’s ok to be me.
My biggest fear is illness. I have had over 20 operations and thank God that nothing is serious but dread if it could be.
My biggest dream, well that’s quite hard, as I now feel I am living my dream, being retired ( early!) and being very busy doing the things I enjoy. I look forward to my husband retiring and living the dream even more.
Who am I? Ha! I now know I am me. A person who matters, has her own thoughts and dreams and it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks as long as its OK by me. That’s been a hard one and typing this I am astounded that I have written it and am in tears. I am not the 5 year old, I have felt I am around my mother, for the last 50 years. I am Nicki, a wife, an animal lover, an athlete, a baker who is loving it!
I thank you all for the blog, it has helped me along so much….x